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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Douglas Murray letting rip about Starbucks is an absolute joy

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LiterallyProblematic · 02/03/2020 20:29

He starts at 44 minutes in. It’s bloody brilliantly!

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BustedWench · 03/03/2020 09:04

Well Tommy Robinson has come out against the transition of kids and the materials used in schools, I personally need a stiff drink to recover

LiterallyProblematic · 03/03/2020 09:04

@TheRealMcKenna quite

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Deathgrip · 03/03/2020 09:06

I didn’t say he was.

Nameofchanges · 03/03/2020 09:12

But Douglas Murray isn’t far right or alt right.

People who consider Douglas Murray to be far right, who are the moderate right wing thinkers you read/listen to?

definitelygc · 03/03/2020 09:12

I hugely appreciate the kind of clear thinking shown by Murray talking about Mermaids but I do think feminism is a major blind spot for him. I listened to his Triggernometry podcast and thought he made some interesting points but his section about women was dire. His core claim was that young, attractive women are the most powerful members of society because they can make men do whatever they want. He was describing a scenario of a young woman talking to an older male CEO suggesting that the CEO would be spellbound, dribbling and desperate to impress. It was such a complete misunderstanding of what "power" actually is.

Milicentbystander72 · 03/03/2020 09:14

I've recently come across Douglas Murray and I'm impressed by a lot of what he says. I'm currently reading The Madness of Crowds. This discussion is really interesting and well worth a watch

I think Murray is right. The voices in our society arguing to even question all this ideology must have to come from writers who are mostly self employed and aren't living in fear of being hounded out of their job!

Zinco · 03/03/2020 09:19

I think that, by modern standards, Douglas Murrary is far right, or approaching the far right on the particular issue of Islam. Or anyway, he is at the critical end of conservatism which is likely to be accused of Islamophobia.

BovaryX · 03/03/2020 09:19

I think Murray is right. The voices in our society arguing to even question all this ideology must have to come from writers who are mostly self employed and aren't living in fear of being hounded out of their job!

That is an excellent point which is reiterated by Harry Miller. The disproportionate responsibility to speak out because so many are too frightened to do so. One of the aspects of this authoritarian agenda is to make dissent impossible. To criminalise it. One of the tactics used is an immediate, spurious accusation of 'hate speech.' Justice Knowles specifically references this in his conclusion; he cites it as a deliberate tactic for silencing debate.

7Days · 03/03/2020 09:26

That enraged me too, definitelygc.

Then I thought, if he us wrong about this what other blund spots does he have?

But that's not a reason to dismiss everything he says, more a reason to be clear headed and critical in assessing his arguments.

Milicentbystander72 · 03/03/2020 09:27

I agree Bovary.

People tried to 'cancel' JK Rowling fir nearly saying TW are not women. She is somewhat shielded by her millions. Less monied is Graham Lineham of course which is why I admire his bravery.

One thing Douglas Murray said in this video that really resonated with me was (maybe not word for word) ......"currently the most direct way you can help is to basically stand up for your mates if you see them being bullied or lied about"

He is also very clear on how abhorrent medicating and mutilating children in the name of trans is. He believes future generations will look back at us and say "they did what??".

Milicentbystander72 · 03/03/2020 09:27

*merely saying not 'nearly saying'

TheProdigalKittensReturn · 03/03/2020 09:30

His core claim was that young, attractive women are the most powerful members of society because they can make men do whatever they want

This isn't just misogyny, it's jealousy, and it's a blind spot a lot of men have. I'm not saying it's OK that he has that blind spot, I'm just saying that it may not be very useful to dismiss what he says about an entirely different topic because of it.

BovaryX · 03/03/2020 09:32

He is also very clear on how abhorrent medicating and mutilating children in the name of trans is. He believes future generations will look back at us and say "they did what??"

I absolutely agree. The Manichean certainties of those promoting witch hunts, and denunciations? The bankrupt paradigm of #no debate? Putting children on hormones which can cause infertility and a host of serious life changing medical problems? And bankrolling this through cookies? History's judgement will not be kind.

LiterallyProblematic · 03/03/2020 09:33

7Days, that’s part of the process I’ve been through with ‘the left’. If they’re wrong about this, what else have they got wrong. I’m economically left wing, and have always voted labour, and also was a strong supporter of Corbyn (until about 20 months ago) but this gender madness has really opened my eyes.

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Asimovsfutureishere2020 · 03/03/2020 09:42

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The point they make that they were expected to read the texts and not the critics is something that has been on my mind frequently.

Murray's point on 'construct' as well.

I am amazed at people who discuss books and the ideas in them without having read the book. It must come from an idea on meta analysis?

7Days · 03/03/2020 09:56

It's a good thing LiterallyProblematic. Otherwise we risk falling into ideological traps.
Problem is, that takes a lot of work and frankly intelligence. Which I'm not sure I personally have enough of, to be Frank. I can totally see the appeal of ideological nests, and think for a lot of people it's pure random which one you tumble into first.

This is where journalism has failed, imo. I dont mean news reporters as such, but journalists should be the ones who analyse facts and viewpoints and concisely set them before people. They have allowed this situation to develop. Where thoughtful engaged people are afraid to peep over the wall at the other tribe. Its ridiculous and dangerous.

Obviously it's not easy with SM and falling revenue, and the rise of infotainment. But pandering to polarisation is a dereliction of duty.

teawamutu · 03/03/2020 10:04

Listened to the Mermaids bit, it was excellent. Madness of Crowds now on the reading list.

TheProdigalKittensReturn · 03/03/2020 10:05

Going back to the actual interview, what he said about brands rainbow-washing themselves to direct attention away from bad corporate behavior is an echo of what started happening at least a decade ago with brands placing a lot of emphasis on how green they were but, when you looked beyond the ad campaign, often their supply chain was full of very un-green elements and they were also trying to cover up worker exploitation and so on. These are similar branding strategies in that they distract from what the brands don't want you looking at and make the customers feel good about themselves. In order to achieve that they don't actually have to do good in any material sense, they just have to appeal to the customer's ego and a very superficial sense of what their "values" are. And when the gender stuff goes out of fashion they'll shift their emphasis to whatever the next look what a good consumer I am symbol is, while still being absolutely horrible on all kinds of levels. It's sleigh of hand.

Asimovsfutureishere2020 · 03/03/2020 10:09

@7Days 'Otherwise we risk falling into ideological traps.
Problem is, that takes a lot of work and frankly intelligence'

The problem is that Murray et al know that you gain an intelligent perspective and develop your intelligence by engaging with those texts and as he is calls it, the 'core' of a subject then you apply that intelligence to real life problems. Those books are muscle building exercises for the brain and intellect.

I cannot understand why more people don't realise this.

It's easier to have an a la carte ideology, I guess and demonise independent thinkers.

BovaryX · 03/03/2020 10:15

Listened to the Mermaids bit, it was excellent. Madness of Crowds now on the reading list

The Madness of Crowds is excellent. Murray discusses Butler et al and the incoherence at the centre of the identity politics paradigm. His analysis of what is happening in the US in academia is a grim insight into the fanaticism at the heart of #no debate. He is an erudite writer with an interesting perspective.

TheRealMcKenna · 03/03/2020 10:37

The Madness of Crowds is excellent.

The Madness of Crowds audiobook is even better. It is narrated by Douglas which really adds something to it.

I’ve never listened to a book before and wanted to both laugh and cry at the same time.

PhonicTheHedgehog · 03/03/2020 10:55

DH listened to Murray discussing the Madness of Crowds on the radio. He thought of me and I received a surprise copy for Christmas.
I’m only up to chapter 1, my foggy peri-menopausal brain won’t let me read. I might get the audio book instead.

Antibles · 03/03/2020 11:04

I think it's Murray's section on motherhood misses the point most spectacularly and really chaps my ass.

"If it is assumed that the primary purpose in life is to make as much mohney as possible, then it is indeed possible that having a child will constitue a 'penalty' for a woman and thereby prevent her from having a larger sum of money in her bank account when she dies. On the other hand, if she chooses to pay that 'penalty' she might be fortunate enough to engage in the most important and fulfilling role that a human being can have."

And: "Is this not a better way to think about motherhood and life? In a spirit of love and forgiveness rather than the endless register of resentment and greed?"

The fact that men can more easily achieve the joys of fatherhood without the same lifetime financial penalty isn't even mentioned even though it's the whole bloody point. We just need to be more grateful for the superior chance nature gave us to be poorer and more economically vulnerable through the joys of childrearing apparently.

AutumnRose1 · 03/03/2020 11:08

“ It is narrated by Douglas which really adds something to it.”

Oh I’ve heard about this - look at her butt, etc in a Douglas Murray voice.

Probably quite funny.

But yes, his views on women.....he’s bright enough to rethink those, I hope.

lucymaudmonty · 03/03/2020 11:12

I think that, by modern standards, Douglas Murrary is far right, or approaching the far right on the particular issue of Islam. Or anyway, he is at the critical end of conservatism which is likely to be accused of Islamophobia.

but it's more complex than that, because what he is saying is that many of our core values in a liberal society, eg equality between the sexes and enlightened attitudes to sexuality, are not in alignment with the values of Islam. Yet to pout this out verges on racism and Islam pogo is. So to what extent do you tolerate intolerance?? This is something I have grappled with for a while.

He makes similar points re the left eating itself when it comes to feminism vs trans and gay vs trans