I think Stonewall is the shoe that has yet to drop.
This. It can't be repeated enough that they are a biased, political lobby group acting in their own interests, and that wouldn't be ok to have setting and writing policy even without all the other issues. There has been a major due diligence failure, with people from such lobby groups delivering training who were not qualified, did not know the law, have misrepresented fact and created the mess we're in. Stonewall have been trusted as an impartial expert group, not least because of govt funding, and everyone's blindly regarded them in the light of the National Trust, or the British Heart Foundation instead of in the light of the Young Conservative Association, or the Christian Fellowship. Perfectly acceptable political organisation, but with a clear bias and perspective that must be taken into account, and care taken in trainings and education that commissioners don't lay themselves open to accusations of bias, politicisation, representing one view as the 'right' view against others, or indoctrination.
However since the Labour candidates pulled this further into the sunlight we've had several days of people saying things on radio and in the papers that I don't think would have been possible even three months ago, and it's put it on the general public's radar. The response is overwhelmingly wtf? I'm starting to think a future of 'be who you want, that's great, that's to be celebrated, but TW and women are two different groups with different needs and provision' is starting to become a stronger public idea.