Can someone explain what is the objection to condemning transphobia?
It's a good question. In my mind, there is no question that we should condemn transphobia.
The problem is that 'transphobia' has become a catchall term to throw at anyone who doesn't agree with gender ideology extremists and transactivists. Or even those who are not sure, and can see merit on all sides of the debate, but can also see the bullying, the doxxing, and the actual - not literal - violence which has been meted out to women.
'Transphobia" has become the new "burn the witch" dogwhistle, directed particularly at feminists who understand the difference between sex and gender, and want to maintain women's rights to:
- define ourselves
- meet together without men
- keep ourselves safe
- offer single-sex spaces in the public sphere as sanctuary and for privacy and dignity
When I'm asked if I think that transwomen are women? I am genuinely torn in my answer. I'm torn between respecting the position of the transwomen I know as friends, and my knowledge of biology.
'Transphobia' as the term is now used, doesn't allow for feminists to acknowledge the gap between our personal experience (maybe of old-school 'transexuals') and our understanding of the broader social structures of patriarchy.