@AppleTree76 You people are obsessed it's ridiculous
Uh huh. Tell me, would you use that phrase: "You people are obsessed it's ridiculous" to tell black people their activism was obsessive? Would you call Black Lives Matter a hate organisation, for that matter (most Trump supporters do, so yep, there's excellent precedent, if you're into that kind of language about people defending their rights).
Funny thing, how intensely relaxed people are when abusing women over this. Misogyny's just fine, when aimed at women who won't do what men tell them to. People happily use language, tropes and silencing strategies that would be deemed abhorrent if aimed at black people, gay people, or disabled people, simply defending their own rights... well. One would hope.
You can explain something to me, though. Trans activists have endless meetings and demonstrations and pledges to try to force us into submission. Tad obsessive, no? The determination of those with male bodies to force themselves into women's spaces, and conversations, without our consent, and the determination to isolate and deplatform and abuse and harass women who say no, actually, I know what a woman is, and it's not a male, and our rights matter, too? Little bit on the obssessive front, to go to the papers if women don't want to share spaces with male bodies, for extremely good safeguarding, privacy, and dignity reasons - so why the endless, vehement, often vindictive determination to force us, even when there are perfectly good unisex options available? Why the need for our physical presence? What's that about - why the HUGE FUSS on it?
I mean, I'd never call any group, "you people" because it's othering and offensive - I don't think any human beings should be addressed like that, ever - but it's certainly hypocritical, given the endless bullying of women, to say women refusing to stand for someone else's obsessional demands when they are directly affected are obsessed. If we stop being bullied into sacrificing the very definition of what it is to be female, then we'll stop talking about it. Sounds a fabulous idea to me!
Women as a collective get to decide what a woman is. Not men. "Nothing about us without us" is the phrase of choice, I'm told. You may be familiar with it.
I'm interested though, in hearing why you feel that that's wrong. Why we should be erased completely as a sex class, so we can't be defined, can't collectively defend our interests, and can't work together to that end? Why we should be denied the right to single sex spaces? And why that is controversial? What does it take from anyone else, if women want to share private space with only those of our own biology? Why is that offensive to some males?
Nobody has ever been able to explain what a woman is, if it's not biology, not sexist stereotypes, and more than "a feeling in one person's head" which.. I mean, come on. You need more than that before you erase other people's rights and call them bigots for minding. Don't you?