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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

how trans friendly is your area?

91 replies

kieronsmum · 15/12/2019 11:37

election.unherd.com/gender/

my area is very supportive

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DonutMan · 15/12/2019 22:22

All the B cities and towns seem very woke - Bristol, Brighton, even Birmingham.

Birmingham? Really?

I used to live there and remember it having a high Muslim population (50% of who believe homosexuality should be an imprisonable offence according to various statistics I've read).

According to the Birmingham mail, the 2011 census showed that 42% of residents were 'British non-white'. If the 2021 poll shows an increase at least equal to the one between 2001-2011 (12%), then white British residents will be in the minority - 60% of under 18s in Birmingham are now 'non-white British'.

I don't see it as being a city of trendy woke hipsters.

BeyondFlubeInclusionaryRF · 15/12/2019 22:28

No donut, but extreme religious types (of various religions) are quite fond of the "trans away the gay" approach...

DonutMan · 15/12/2019 22:36

No donut, but extreme religious types (of various religions) are quite fond of the "trans away the gay" approach...

I can't say I've ever heard that. Not disagreeing, I honestly have just never encountered that viewpoint.

BeyondFlubeInclusionaryRF · 15/12/2019 22:47

Have a look at Iran - where homosexuality is still a capital offence

HandsOffMyRights · 15/12/2019 22:55

Donut - you are correct. It's not woke generally.

There are pockets, the Hippodrome Theatre and its 'mixed gender' toilets, but mostly this city has a different feel to Bristol, which feels fairly woke.

This is where we spoke to people around the time of the GRA deadline. This included a number of women from ethnically diverse groups (and their husbands).
None were supportive of men sharing spaces with the women and their children - they were shocked to be honest and took Fairplay flyers away with them.

None of them had a clue about self ID - the public has been kept in the dark and fed a pack of propaganda re what trans entails.

Explain that most men retain their genitalia, that not every tw is 'The Danish Girl', talk about Karen White and that transwomen are not women who wish to be men. And this is before we get onto the horrors of Stonewall and Mermaids.

And this is why I smell a rat with this poll.

DonutMan · 15/12/2019 23:45

I definitely get a very different cibd from Bristol, as you say.

But then that may be because I worked in Brum and have mainly just visited Bristol as a tourist effectively - i.e. visited entirely different areas of each respective city.

DonutMan · 15/12/2019 23:46

'Vibe' not 'cibd' (wtf is up with my sausage fingers tonight!).

HandsOffMyRights · 16/12/2019 07:31

True, my Bristol 'vibe' is as a visitor also, so it would be interesting to hear from those who live there.

Needmoresleep · 16/12/2019 07:54

The survey seems to reflect the impressive cognitive dissidence you find in London with high earners wanting low taxes but also wanting woke points, for things like gender and immigration, and based on election results, high Government spending.

The weirdness of constituencies with roads full of million pound houses voting Momentum Labour, whilst others with back to back terraces voting Conservative is perhaps because people with money do not understand life outside London, or their relative affluence.

And maybe in a high cost city you want to appear to be in favour "equality", but equally want a cheap work force, some living in sheds, to drive your Uber, deliver your parcel, look after your children, do your plumbing and mend the hole in your road.

TruthOnTrial · 16/12/2019 08:05

On feminism board 'how trans friendly is your area'.

Friendly towards trans is a feminist issue how exactly?

I would ask for your post to be moved OP

Needmoresleep · 16/12/2019 08:11

Truth, there is a clear clash between trans rights and women's rights. It is important that the detail is researched, considered and debated so that vulnerable people, whether female or male and/or trans are appropriately protected.

So the post is in the right place.

leckford · 16/12/2019 08:17

One of things people voted Conservative was because of the identity nonsense, the madness needs to stop

TruthOnTrial · 16/12/2019 08:27

I'm not seeing the connection or are we saying that the mere act of being trans friendly impinges on women's rights?

In which case what is 'trans friendly' meant to be meaning?

I didn't get any of that explanation from the OP. Am I missing something?

Its just sounds like a nonsense to me.

Needmoresleep · 16/12/2019 08:51

Truth, I assume you are new here.

The question posed was:

"It is acceptable for adolescent children to make their own decisions about their gender identity"

A different way of putting it might be, are you as mothers supportive of teenagers with male genitalia sharing toilet, changing rooms, overnight accommodation etc with girls, possibly going through puberty, possibly menstruating, possibly body conscious, possibly with cultural or religious restrictions. With the girls having no right to object or to demand privacy.

If this is not a feminist issue, it is hard to see what is. Feminists fought hard for single sex spaces and single sex exemptions.

PosieParkerIsAHero · 16/12/2019 08:53

Not surprising at all.

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how trans friendly is your area?
TruthOnTrial · 17/12/2019 08:41

Dc can decide about their own ids, gender, or otherwise. Absolutely.

Its a different issue, wholly, decisions around medicalising that, or accessing public facilities. Those are definitely feminist issues.

The op was how friendly is your area, which is what I addressed my response to.

Its all very woolly

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