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Two Sisters Sexually Assaulted by Same Man Silenced by Attacker With Gagging Order

37 replies

Estraya · 28/11/2019 13:27

I was linked to this by someone on my facebook and thought people here might like to contribute. The full text is below:

We are two sisters looking to raise a minimum of £4000 to cover our legal costs so that we can be represented as we face our attacker in the High Court.

In August 2017 we were sexually assaulted on the same night by the same man. The man who assaulted us is now trying to silence us with a gagging order in the High Court, citing misuse of private information and harassment, after we spoke out about our experience at the encouragement of the police.

We fear that if we cannot obtain the necessary funds to cover our legal fees, we would be banned from talking about the abuse we suffered at his hands forever. Please contribute now and share this page with your friends, family and on social media.

The precedent this case could set is huge and is far greater than ourselves.

If our abuser were to be successful, this would have implications for many others and allow for rapists to bring similar cases against their victims.

We cannot allow this to happen, especially as large numbers of victims are finally having the strength to come forward following the #MeToo movement.

These are discussions we should be encouraging, not shutting down. It is not fair for victims to suffer in silence, or to be forced back into silence by the man who sexually assaulted them.

We have used our experiences to speak out and shine a light on the issues facing survivors of sexual abuse. We set up a non-profit organisation that uses campaigns and advocacy to raise awareness and in doing so it has helped others and ourselves heal. We offer peer support and guidance to other survivors of sexual violence and fear that being silenced will prevent us from continuing this.

When it is thought that there may be other victims of a perpetrator it is important to speak out in the hopes that other victims may come forward which can help secure a criminal conviction. Speaking out also allows victims to reclaim their narrative in an attempt to heal and re-find their voice. Using their voice to tell their story raises awareness, reduces stigma, and creates an environment that encourages other survivors to come forward and disclose. It is paramount that survivors are allowed to state what happened to them and its impacts. If survivors were prevented from speaking out, nothing would ever change.

How much are we raising and why?

We are looking to raise a minimum of £4000 so that we can fund our legal representation at a trial in January. We desperately need to raise this so that we do not have to face our abuser alone. After we reach this initial target, we need to raise as much as possible to successfully fight the injunction our abuser is attempting to place on us. We will be waiving our right to anonymity so that we can crowd fund for our defence team.

Please contribute anything that you are able and share this page now!

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Estraya · 28/11/2019 13:28

Just spotted the typo in the title too late. It should say Two Sisters. Sorry!

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LizziesTwin · 28/11/2019 13:32

Thank you for posting this.

littlbrowndog · 28/11/2019 13:45

Bump

LizziesTwin · 30/11/2019 02:15

They achieved their minimum in 31 hours and have a stretch target up

Fallingirl · 30/11/2019 03:03

What is the fundraiser called? We can’t post links to fundraisers on MN, but could you tell us what to search for?

LizziesTwin · 30/11/2019 07:56

Lucy and Verity

Crowd justice

LizziesTwin · 30/11/2019 07:57

“ In 31 hours we hit our minimum target! This is the minimum amount we needed to raise which has allowed for us to re-instruct our lawyers. We cannot thank you all enough.

It is hard to describe how deeply thankful we are and how much your support has made to us. We couldn't have done any of this without your generosity and we are so grateful.
We will still be raising funds for our legal fees (we need about 24, 000 in total) so please keep sharing the link wherever you can!

Thank you so much.”

PurpleHoodie · 30/11/2019 11:47

Very important case.

zanahoria · 30/11/2019 12:05

This is just legal bullying, the man was obviously hoping the two women would have no money for their defence and cave in. If they are properly represented then he won't stand a chance.

PurpleHoodie · 30/11/2019 12:33

Well he has only provoked me to send £10 their way. And another for Vancouver Rape Relief.

I would have only spent it on Christmas decoration tat anyway.

The prick.

LizziesTwin · 30/11/2019 13:23

I just got a newsletter from Vancouver Rape Relief, dreadful font in the email but the newsletter itself is quite legible.

BarbaraStrozzi · 30/11/2019 17:35

Bumping this.

Have just dug another shovelful for them.

GoldHat · 30/11/2019 18:52

Where’s the link for the fundraising page?

BarbaraStrozzi · 30/11/2019 18:54

We're not allowed to link to crowdfunders, but if you Google Lucy and Verity Crowdjustice you'll find it.

picklemepopcorn · 30/11/2019 19:02

I don't understand.
Has the perpetrator been charged?
Are the sisters raising funds to challenge the gagging order?

Fallingirl · 01/12/2019 00:41

Giving this a bump. One of the hardest parts of abuse is being denied the right to tell you own story.

If you can spare even 1£, please chip in.

abitlostandalwayshungry · 01/12/2019 00:49

Bump

Google Lucy and Verity

Crowd justice to find the fundraiser

Bouledeneige · 01/12/2019 00:57

Where is this is in the UK or overseas?

Fallingirl · 01/12/2019 01:06

It’s in the UK.

LizziesTwin · 01/12/2019 02:57

At the moment they are trying to prevent the gagging order, he has an injunction to protect his name. Quite often once a suspect’s name comes out, other victims come forwards. They have waived their rights to anonymity to try to stop the gagging order.

PurpleHoodie · 01/12/2019 03:07

Brave women.

picklemepopcorn · 01/12/2019 08:44

Very brave. Lucy and Verity. He's scum.

SophoclesTheFox · 01/12/2019 09:21

Very brave women. Have chucked a bit of cash their way.

gemmaxyz · 29/01/2020 09:00

Bumping this because they tweeted on the 27th "As of today we are again litigants in person (unrepresented) due to lack of funds. We desperately need to raise as much as poss so that we can pay our legal team to represent us again. We do not want to face our abuser in the high court alone. Pls donate."

The gagging order also means they can't talk to the press although many publications, mainstream media and law sector, have apparently contacted them. This is hampering their fundraising efforts. If they were able to publicise it in the press they would surely be able to meet the target.

gemmaxyz · 29/01/2020 09:05

This case would appear to have huge implications for others if they lose and it sets a precedent.

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