you are normalising the silencing of women. That's not being cautious, that's capitulation
'Fraid that's how I see it too, Hope.
I wish it wasn't but the ball's in your court to actively change that view. And endlessly minimising the fuck-ups and Justine in denial about the way her mod team is being used as a proxy for coercive controllers isn't going to do it any time soon.
Sorry. Not going to massage any egos when I'm being abused and nobody in authority will admit it.
(Still no dolls with pins though. So there's that!)