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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Any radfems in Notts?

36 replies

BrianFuckingMay · 19/11/2019 10:21

Baby radfem here Smile I was part of a radfem group before I moved to Nottingham and I've been searching for radfems here since September but haven't had any luck Sad Can anyone point me in the right direction?

(I was going to pm the For Women Notts Twitter but then I got banned from Twitter for calling Aimee Challenor a man, as you do)

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APerkyPumpkin · 19/11/2019 11:20

There are a few of us Derby way...There is a Nottingham Feminist Friends Facebook groups and every time anyone posts anything there is an influx of 'I hope you mean all women'...and then the organiser has to explain what they mean by women yada yada yada.

Not sure if there is a rad fem group - if there is I've not found it yet, but you might find some in the above group who are rad fems. If you find one please let me know.

BrianFuckingMay · 19/11/2019 11:47

@APerkyPumpkin Thank you so much! Ugh that sounds irritating, but I'll check the group out and do a little snooping. If I find any radfems in it I'll let you know Smile

It's a shame Derby is so far from me :( I don't have a car so it's quite a long way, but it's still nice to hear that there's radfems somewhat nearby

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MrsSnippyPants · 19/11/2019 11:58

Have you contacted resistersunited.org/ OP?

woopdedoodle · 19/11/2019 12:14

Waving from Derby too.

A relatively new arrival in the city, I've been eyeing up local groups to get to know people but haven't taken the plunge yet. ,

APerkyPumpkin · 19/11/2019 13:03

It's a shame Derby is so far from me

That's ok, I do! I pop over regularly.

BrianFuckingMay · 19/11/2019 13:14

@MrsSnippyPants No I haven't. Would that be worth doing do you think?

@woopdedoodle Hey Smile

@APerkyPumpkin Ok ! If you or any other radfems are in Nottingham maybe we could grab a coffee sometime? Or alternatively if you guys have any meetings coming up I could catch the bus to Derby? (Ahaha obviously I understand the risks of meeting random strangers from the internet but obvs I'd add you on Fb or something first just to verify that I'm not some catfish TRA or something)

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APerkyPumpkin · 19/11/2019 13:33

Ok ! If you or any other radfems are in Nottingham maybe we could grab a coffee sometime?

I'll check it out with my chum and see if we can set something up...

weirdchocolates · 19/11/2019 20:47

I'm in a town between Derby and Notts and would love to hear of any gatherings nearby - I was looking for rad fem groups in the east mids but couldn't find

Cuntysnark · 19/11/2019 20:50

Good luck Brian. Grassroot groups are utterly fab. And they’re growing. Solidarity and success!

withinacceptabletolerances · 19/11/2019 20:55

Yep south Notts here. I've looked for groups too but not seen anything. I'm in the feminist friends fb group but not keen on it to be honest. Let me know if you set anything up 😁

Lysistrataknowsherstuff · 19/11/2019 21:24

I'm not far from Notts - out in the sticks but more than happy to travel to the big city!

SIL is also near Notts - I've been slowly radicalising her, although she's not braved the MN portal yet!

Carriemac · 19/11/2019 21:27

Contact the resisters - there is an active notts group

testing987654321 · 19/11/2019 23:33

Yes please email Nottingham resisters.

BrianFuckingMay · 20/11/2019 09:13

Morning all! Sorry for the late reply Smile

@weirdchocolates If I find or start any groups I'll pm you ! x

@Cuntysnark Hehe, nice to see you here. How are you? Flowers (I'm assuming you are who I think you might be Wink)

@withinacceptabletolerances Yeah I had a look at the Facebook group and I wasn't too keen either :/ I'll go ask and around and I'll let you know if I find anything ! x

@Lysistrataknowsherstuff Cool! I'll contact you if I organise or find any groups/events Smile x And keep trying! Once you've braved Mumsnet you never go back

@Carriemac + @testing987654321Thank you both! I'll email them asap Smile x

And thank you all for your messages Flowers I'm in a very libfem/TRA environment and I've felt like I've been going mad these last two months, so it's been lovely (and refreshing!) to speak to you all ! I'll pm the relevant people if I find anything Smile

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BrianFuckingMay · 20/11/2019 09:23

Wait I have a question, should I email the resisters with my personal email or a throwaway one? Which is safer/more advisable?

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APerkyPumpkin · 20/11/2019 09:31

i'd advise a throwaway one anyway, you just never know.

SaltyColin · 20/11/2019 11:04

I'm in the area too and would love to know if you find a radfem group or just fancy a coffee and a chat.

@BrianFuckingMay I bet I can guess what environment you're in from your description! No need to tell me, but let's just say I have links to a similar one

Cuntysnark · 20/11/2019 11:15

My cover is blown 😨

AniseDanehill · 20/11/2019 11:33

Delurker from Leicestershire here. Addicted to FWR and really keen to do more than contribute to crowdfunding and attending WPUK meetings.

BrianFuckingMay · 20/11/2019 13:56

@SaltyColin Hey! Smile A coffee and a chat would be great! And ahahaha yes, a baby radfem who moved to Nottingham in September... I think you can definitely guess what sort of place I'm in. Glad to hear you're in a somewhat similar one, it makes me feel slightly less like the lone radfem here xx

@AniseDanehill Hi! Smile I'll pm you if I find any East Midland groups!

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Uppatea · 20/11/2019 16:26

Hi Brian, I work in one of 'those places' in Notts, I wonder if it's the same one... Am very keen on meeting like minded women in real life. Work is heaven for the woke and resistance feels futile.

BrianFuckingMay · 20/11/2019 16:38

@Uppatea
Heya ! Honestly I completely understand what you mean about them being heaven for the woke. I had to listen to and make notes from someone talking about the travesty of "cisgender male actors playing transgender women in film" today for half an hour, and I thought I was going to cry of frustration. Spaces that are meant to be feminist or LGB friendly are completely hostile. It's ridiculous and pretty isolating tbh. You have no idea who you can talk to or who you can trust, it's like a horror film Sad

I understand that we all have to be careful about our identities and such (especially for you since your job is on the line) but I'd love to know if we're at the same place. Maybe pm me sometime? x Smile

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TheShoesa · 20/11/2019 17:05

Another waving from over Derby way.

I don't come over to Nottingham much any more, but could do!

Seaglass87 · 29/12/2020 22:14

Bumping this thread as looking for the same thing one year on. Are there any groups out there :-)?

itispersonal · 29/12/2020 22:25

Norm here. No groups that I know of. Lots of women's places seem to be woke - like women's aid and the women's safety night, allowed for self Id women to be part of it.

I need an Avenue to explore this with, dp and friends male and female just don't get the issue.

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