Anal sex for 13 year olds? Warwickshire again...

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I’m offering this without comment, mainly because my jaw is still on the floor.

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Sex positive and pleasure focus was 60s70s80s about female pleasure, about making sex better for women.

As ever the aim and words of feminists have been turned around, stolen by men for their own purposes.

In this case to tell girls that working in porn is great, having loads of men ejaculate over you is empowering, that if you're not sure about anal just read these instructions, and having boundaries around men seeing you unclothed in a medical context is selfish.

What can we do? FOI request? Complaint? Something needs to happen as a matter of urgency - the content is disgusting and I cannot believe that any adult would think it a good idea to publish and normalise to young teenagers

"My 15/16 year old son sniggered at a fisting joke, up til then i didnt know he ‘knew’ about it"

I hate to break it to you but most teens have heard of fisting (and other acts) well before they reach 15/16.

I hate to break it to you but most teens have heard of fisting (and other acts) well before they reach 15/16.

Entirely unsurprising when schools and councils are teaching it to them at 12 and 13.

Of course teenagers have heard of this stuff. The problem is that it is being recommended to them by predatory adults rather than children being told that these are 'niche' activities that the majority of people will never consent to taking part in and as children, if anyone asks them to take part, that is an abusive request.

I am still aghast that a4yo hugging is described as sexual on a resource schools use.

I mean that's off the charts paedo max isn't it.

The only people who think a4yo giving a hug is in any way related to sex, are those who seek to justify abusing small children.

I hate to break it to you but most teens have heard of fisting (and other acts) well before they reach 15/16.

I know that

He had obviously heard if it before but it was the first time i was able to discuss something like this with him

AS I CERTAINLY WASNT BRINGING IT UP

Though i think my children might hang round with the wrong peer group for sex education

16 year ds2 said the other day that he doesn’t understand what people get out of oral sex...especially as they can’t do it at the same time

I hate to break it to you but most teens have heard of fisting (and other acts) well before they reach 15/16.

Oh FFS. It's not about what they've heard of or what they haven't.

Read Stephanie DA's thread above. Those are the facts on the ground. Girls are being coerced into sex they neither like nor want. The rate of impotence in young men has increased from 2% to 30% because they're all pornsick and can't get a hard on. This is not sex positive, for fucks sake. This is not the healthy sexual future we want for our children.

Why are you supporting grooming them into this hellscape instead of sensible curricula that enable them to find ways to create mutually-fulfilling, sustainable sex lives that actually give them lasting pleasure?

A healthy sex life isn't a fucking video game where you chase achievements. Nothing sex positive about that.

Yeah Lang and not being sex as a performance but something that’s fun and lovely

Why are you supporting grooming them into this hellscape

Hellscape is an appallingly accurate description.

Shoving your fist in someone's anus, or in their vagina, eating their shit?

Please tell me what is erotic about that???
It's utterly degrading - let's see if I can get this in there, just because.

Ugh.

I have to say, I have never understood how you can put your fist up another person's arse without causing them an injury, especially if it's done repeatedly.

A fist?!

Oculolinctus! That's the eye fetish thing. And frankly it seems fairly harmless in comparison to the other stuff

And surely if you not only enjoy eating someone else's shit, but actually get sexually aroused by it, there is something wrong with you.

I mean, it's poo for gods sakes!

Call me cynical but I think causing the other party an injury is probably part of the fun, for people who are that way inclined.

It's all too horrible for words.

I'd never heard of Oculolinctus before this thread (& wish I still hadn't).

There are certainly some odd people around. When I was single I had a brief association with a man who, after sex, liked to listen to my heartbeat through a stethoscope. He wasn't a doctor, he was a solicitor. That was weird but harmless.

Oculolinctus

Further reports, e.g. in an article by the Huffington Post later corrected as a possible hoax, showed an increase in Japanese schoolchildren wearing eyepatches due to eye infections

I suppose it makes a change from the woman who married to the Eiffel Tower.

He's got no fucking clue what might be pleasurable for women, though (or girls, though frankly he shouldn't be addressing girls at all at his age). And that's the most generous possible interpretation, that he's thinking about sex and going "well it would be great for me and for other men if they loved it when we stuck cocks and fists up their arses, so presumably that's fun for them too, eh?"

We have been receiving a lot of comments on the All About Me programme of relationship education

...and so you bloody should!

..and I hope a lot more until its torn down

Well then listen to them, instead of pretending you know best whats best for children, sicko paedos.

I hope this blows open the massive paedo ring.

If I stood outside a school with plackaards like 'fisting' etc, I swear I'd be reported and arrested for Chilld abuse, well I would expect to, and so I should be.

If I stood outside a school with plackaards like 'fisting' etc, I swear I'd be reported and arrested for Chilld abuse, well I would expect to, and so I should be.

Well quite.

jezus

As an incidental; I went on some Warwickshire Safeguarding Training workshop a fair few years back. To say that 99% of it was making the people in the room feel bad about things that they may not have done in the past, and 1% - right at the end of 'what you should actually do if you spot signs of abuse' is probably about the right ratio. It was one of the worst Safeguarding sessions I've ever been on.

Just to sum up their 'skills', the first session was a box of Jenga for each table. They got us to play it. Yes, Jenga. When I asked why they said it was a 'teambuilding' session. Teambuilding, where you play against each other. Right ho. It went downhill from there. Taking Safeguarding seriously are we?

I wouldn't trust Warwickshire Safeguarding as far as I could throw them.

We are back to "coping" again.
Women, girls, children being told that it is their role to find ways of coping with sex that makes them mentally or physically uncomfortable. No mention, ever, of "no" or "stop" being an acceptable response.

Does anybody have a contact email for Warwickshire CC?

I've left 'feedback' on the website, but complaints are made via an online form and they don't provide an email address. I'd like to email them direct.

after sex, liked to listen to my heartbeat through a stethoscope. He wasn't a doctor, he was a solicitor. That was weird but harmless.

He was checking he'd managed to raise your pulse rate sufficiently. Bet he had a spreadsheet somewhere.