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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Anal sex for 13 year olds? Warwickshire again...

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Whatisthisfuckery · 25/09/2019 20:46

I’m offering this without comment, mainly because my jaw is still on the floor.

twitter.com/hubblevicky/status/1176758148721512448?s=21

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Datun · 28/09/2019 10:21

Eyeball licking???????

SirVixofVixHall · 28/09/2019 10:22

I am middle aged and have never heard of bukake, I have absolutely no idea what that is, or daisy chaining, I am not going to google ! Nor had I heard of felching until I looked at that website. Yet my young daughters are supposed to read about this stuff ?
Vile. Who on God’s earth wants to talk to year 8 children about extreme sexual fetishes ? It is so disturbing that I actually had to stop reading.
I posted on the AIBU thread about this, that the whole tone , the down-with-the-kids language suddenly reminded me of someone, the one adult who was like this with my friendship group when I was the target age of the site. That man, Jack, tried to groom me, and had been raping his daughter for years. That clever, funny, talented young woman killed herself twenty five years ago, leaving a baby and tiny child. All the alarm bells are ringing for me here.
What the hell is wrong with the people who have given the green light for this ? Do they really think this is progressive ?

TheProdigalKittensReturn · 28/09/2019 10:27

In what way are eyeballs erotic? I'm still confused 25+ years later!

LangCleg · 28/09/2019 10:44

I remember eyeball licking!

(Talk of it! Talk of it! Not actually doing it!)

SirVixofVixHall · 28/09/2019 10:46

EYEBALL LICKING ? ?
The easy way to conjunctivitis kids.

LangCleg · 28/09/2019 10:49

In the end, it boils down to this: minors are going to experiment with sex. Sometimes a bit too early, sometimes at the right point. We all know this and we all know it's not the end of the world. What they need is not an explanation of every esoteric activity going with a side order of grooming fanfare of cool confetti attached. It's parental input and a school curriculum that puts an emphasis on the ability to assert boundaries and to resist peer pressure.

Then the poor little things might actually enjoy it when they do give it a go.

MoltenLasagne · 28/09/2019 11:27

I feel like anything claiming to be educational ought to be teaching about the health consequences of these niche acts.

So e.coli should get a mention, as should anal leakage, colostomy bags, not to forget the usual plethora of STDs that young adults ought to be informed of as part of encouraging safe sex.

TheProdigalKittensReturn · 28/09/2019 11:32

Apparently the Scottish guidelines have children learning the anal how to stuff at least a year before learning about STD. Whose brilliant idea was that?

Ereshkigal · 28/09/2019 11:56

That clever, funny, talented young woman killed herself twenty five years ago, leaving a baby and tiny child.

That's so terribly sad Thanks

TruthOnTrial · 28/09/2019 12:22

How awful, sickening.

That clever, funny, talented young woman Flowers

Fraggling · 28/09/2019 12:33

bukakee which I as an adult have never heard of but the site said can be empowering or degrading'

Empowering for men degrading for women. Obviously. Like the vast majority of het porn.

I wonder if that is so much of a thing in gay porn. Which in its standard format is much less about sexual dominance and violence.

SunsetBeetch · 28/09/2019 13:21

@Warwickshire_cc

"We have been receiving a lot of comments on the All About Me programme of relationship education. We want to reassure you that this is a thoroughly researched, evidence-based programme fully complying with the @educationgovuk guidelines."

twitter.com/Warwickshire_CC/status/1176840357075664896?s=19

TheProdigalKittensReturn · 28/09/2019 13:22

"Researched", eh? Well, I suppose if it allows Jonny to bill for his porn watching hours...

Wurzelsnewhead · 28/09/2019 13:37

Sunset which is why the partnering of Going off the Rails, WCC ( and others) with The Sex Education Forum in my previous posts needs to be looked at.
The Sex Education Forum who led on statutory RSE need to be held accountable for the resources and teaching they are now introducing into schools.

MrGsFancyNewVagina · 28/09/2019 13:48

You’d think they’d jump at the chance to link to the ‘evidence based research’, wouldn’t you? When I was at school/uni, I always had to link to any research to show evidence of any claims.

Fraggling · 28/09/2019 13:57

Does frantically wanking to the idea of fisting 13yo count as research?

Thingybob · 28/09/2019 14:08

website for the wider organisation both WCC and JH are affiliated with:
www.sexeducationforum.org.uk/

Thankyou for that link Wurzelsnewhead

I noticed that the site www.dosreforschools.com/ that Justin Hancock (another pro anal, fetish, anything goes person) co writes is among the list.

Yes we need to look at some of those so called experts who have no experience in education, child psychology or health but wish to 'educate' kids.

Oblomov19 · 28/09/2019 14:23

Whilst this is clearly awful. Ie the above link.

I have been informed that 15 year olds here, are having anal sex rather than sex, as a first sexual experience, so that they don't get pregnant!! Yes. Really!

And that this is all the rage atm. Made me Very sad.

So clearly there is actually an issue here.

CaptainKirksSpikeyGhost · 28/09/2019 14:25

clearly there is actually an issue here

Don't worry though because this is a thoroughly researched, evidence-based resource.

Fraggling · 28/09/2019 14:27

It won't be because of pregnancy. Loads of contraceptive choices available.

This was more of a thing I've been told in societies where access to contraception is limited / or where girls want to stay 'virgins'.

It will be because of porn. No two ways about it.

Wurzelsnewhead · 28/09/2019 14:28

Thingybob the same Justin Hancock who works with Meg Barker, partner of Edward Lord?

megjohnandjustin.com/about-us/

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3352843-First-there-was-Jess-Bradley-then-the-Challenors-now-Edward-Lord?pg=13&order=

Small world isn’t it Confused

Fraggling · 28/09/2019 14:29

Is the issue with 15yo having anal sex (which studies have shown the boys expect, so the girls do, and they both expect it to just be painful for her)...

That they aren't getting enough instructions on how to do it.

Or would a hint that actually this is a pretty advanced thing and it's AOK to say no and do some other less tricky things instead, if you want
And that boys should take no for an answer and not plead and bagder...

SunsetBeetch · 28/09/2019 14:59

From Suzzan Blac, who writes an excellent blog on the porn industry (see here theviolenceofpornography.blogspot.com/?m=1&zx=10acf05d771dac51 - not for the faint-hearted).

Anyway, do you want to see this 'Jonny Hunt'?

So 'HERE'S JONNY'
I also found him speaking on a youtube vid-
t.co/v3bD5gfZzk t.co/TqlMTZazOO

Sorry,been away on a seminar. As I said 'Jonny Hunt' is responsible for much of this literature. He also follows sexologists/Jerry Barnett(porn panic) & Myles Jackman the obscenity lawyer.#RedFlag He deems porn a 'moral' issue & equates pornography to normal cinema/films & books t.co/776wOuaeel

SunsetBeetch · 28/09/2019 15:14

twitter.com/cwknews/status/1177904354101272576?s=19

Jonny Hunt's buzz words are 'sex positive' and 'pleasure.' At a @sexedforum conference he spoke on "taking sex-positive approaches in RSE starting in primary." (he also RT'd a defamatory tweet about the Transgender Trend schools pack) t.co/Wyh1BaMcLY

SunsetBeetch · 28/09/2019 15:17

Great thread from Stephanie Davies Arai

"Here is some research-based evidence for @Warwickshire_CC (thread)"

twitter.com/cwknews/status/1177898905050255360?s=19

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