MitziK, well, I do recall one of the specific Christian gurus did a Q&A (might be in Me? Obey him?) where a wife asked about what if her husband requests to start doing the 'bad' things and was piled with a lot of guilt because if she had been a sweet and obedient enough wife, he will never ask, and if he does, God will find a way though, but the most important thing is to obey. Because you vowed to and so on.