Full OP for anyone who can't access the FB link (it is an open/public pace so I'm not outing anyone)
People bitching that the "TERFs/transphobes/radfems/bigots got to me" because I won't get on my knees and lick their boots anymore.
Thing is it was literally the queer theorists and trans advocates who pushed me to my limit. Listen to them long enough and at some point you're gonna snap.
For me it was their fucked up priorities when it came to predatory shits like Yaniv. But it had been brewing for a while over their sexism and homophobia. I kinda caught on when I realized that no other civil rights movement ever treated people being willing to sleep with them as the pinnacle of their liberation, or tried to shut down resources that serve other oppressed groups (see Vancouver Rape Relief)
Then realizing no other civil rights movement ever gained such huge momentum as well as the support of capitalists in such a short space of time.
Add in the lies about murder rates, suicide rates and the appropriation of violence against black people by some of the most privileged white people in the US and it's just a giant mess taking advantage of the willingness of lefty liberal types to be open minded and compassionate, as well as the fact that we've never actually been able to eradicate sexism and misogyny on the left so there was a swathe of men begging for a woke new excuse to hurl misogynistic abuse at women. This movement is characterized by a complete lack of compassion for anyone who wasn't born with a dick.
People don't listen to "TERFs" and then leave the trans community, they listen to trans advocates long enough that their brains finally switch back on. And these twits are so shortsighted and hamfisted that they try to deal with people questioning within the community by doubling down on their nonsense and trying to verbally bash them into submission.
Nobody should ever be discriminated against on the basis of their sex or presentation and I'm right here to fight that, but you can keep the rest of your sexist, homophobic and frequently racist ideology. It's so damn good to finally be out of that fucking cult.