Thank you all for answering. Is there anything it can be done about the pronouns?
This policing other people's language is very dangerous. I am in favour for some form of moderation (racism, hate, speech) but certainly using a pronoun does not cover it?
Is there anything that can be done to, politely, challenge this rule? TRAs have pulled policy in one way, can we pull it the other way? Apologies if this has been done to death.
I have not even a particularly feminist agenda on this occasion, it's my researcher sense for some form of "truth" for want if a better word that makes this policy seem untenable and indefensible .