I tend to find people who don't pretend to be superior and pure to be much better company and much kinder
It's always been so. Puritanism is alive and well in this activism: it's always believed in beating and burning and casting women out through their warped brand of 'love'. Clare Jane Jones mentioned the 'cold dead eyes' of the 'this is for your own good': Mr Murdstone in action. Dickens was taking the mickey out of all this well over a century ago.
As mentioned above, it's rather sad when you see someone in action who has needed to reject themselves so totally that they loathe and despise anything that is associated with it. In this case, females. Whittle sees any female stupid enough to stay female as embracing the hell of disempowerment and suffering they escaped.
I do idly wonder at times that if women just embraced all this and en masse identified out of their oppression and societal role into the gender choice of freedom, power, recognition, choice, privilege (I mean I can enact a 1950s style caricature of a paternalist twit, it's not difficult) if we'd very quickly find that somehow there was this line between those who were permitted that privilege and those who were not.
And that would be biology. Because you cannot identify out of your oppression.