There was a story floating about a teacher (or something like that) asking the group of people various questions like have you had to hold your keys like a weapon, worried about being raped, etc etc and then surprise surprise at the end the men all said no of course but the women there had checked most things off the list.
I'm obviously a horrible story teller and re teller, can anyone help me find this story?
It would be very helpful because when I tried to explain this I sounded mentally ill like i shouldn't be leaving the house but that's not what I meant I just meant there is obviously a privilege being a man not being worried as much.