The BTL comments were promising, particularly this one;
Her first mistake was trying to rationalize with some of these people. All she should have said, "This is the story I want to tell, from my own experiences growing up, I'm sorry if some people feel excluded, that's on you, not me, go write your own stories". Never mind that we're constantly told that only a writer from XYZ group can write stories about XYZ people, so she'd have gotten crap for that too. There is no pleasing some of these folks.