I had what was technically classed as an abortion at 21+5. (This was 22 years ago) My waters had broken and I was told there was zero chance of baby surviving, I was offered the choice of going home and waiting or being induced. I chose the induction. I delivered about 8 hours later, baby was not alive , although I was warned that they may be and may struggle to breath for a while which would have been massively distressing, so as awful as it was it was a relief in some ways that she had no signs of life.
Anyone who thinks that 12 weeks is some kind of neat, tidy arbitrary line to draw is deluding themselves. There are a myriad of reasons and circumstances that mean people choose to terminate pregnancies and they are all valid, regardless of how other people feel about them.
Probably not articulating well but just so very tired of some men (and some women) seeming to suggest that abortion is by and large something that is done on a whim by flighty women for selfish reasons.
My own experience and that of friends and other family members is that abortion is sometimes needed, sometimes wanted, sometimes both, but when it is decided on, whatever the situation, it is necessary and that seems pretty fucking straightforward to me.