Mumsnet educated me about this whole issue. Without mumsnet then I would know nothing about this debate beyond thinking we should be nice to folk who had had or intended to have a sex change. It’s thanks to mumsnet that I now actively campaign on this issue .
But I have no interest in being part of the polarised ends of the debate where people cease to treat each other with respect and humanity.
I have no desire in excusing or defending the actions of this person who screams abuse and attempts to attack Julie Blindel .
But i’m Astonished that people on this board whose opinions I respect don’t understand the link between their typed abuse and personal insults at person and their behaviour. it is obvious will be reading this and will use that abuse to justify continuing to escalate their
Hatred.
Ofcourse talk about this, talk about how the media have given this dangerous individual a platform and encouragement, talk about the whole issue, educate folk about the danger of the proposed law changes, the ridiculousness of stonewall’s position, the woke idiocy of our politicians, the danger to austistic children. Please do, please continue. But you can do all that without deliberately inflaming the behaviour of this unstable individual by posting photos of them, discussing how they look, calling them «it» and that’s even without giving a shit about fucking pronouns.
Treat them like a human being.
At the moment I feel like the scales are falling from my eyes abit. I feel the same way about the tone of this thread as genuine trans woman must do about Towntattle’s behaviour. IE- jeez, stop proving them right.
Both behaviours are the result of inflaming a debate. Both cause the situation to escalate.
I want to spend my time debate, lobbying, trying to find compromise and trying to understand different positions.