Just popping back to say I love Mumsnet.
I came back to see if I could figure out how to answer tricky questions about the thing we cannot talk about, but I see it's all under control and they've been answered.
I don't know how the case will go in terms of pre-hearing and/or full merits hearing or how much support I will need, so need to be a bit flexible - any leftover support if there is any can be allocated to another case when it's over.
In terms of timing any hearing won't be till late in the year. I put the claim in to the tribunal back in March. They are supposed to turn it around and send it to the employer quickly, but in practice there is a backlog so it is still in the judge's in-tray. Once it reaches the employer they have 28 days to reply. Then it goes from there.... with more delays for tribunal backlogs. I have been told to expect periods of stress and drama with lots of waiting in between.
Today has been a highlight. It has been amazing to see so much the support. I have so many messages to respond to!