'cute and tiny and flirty and frilly' - aka female

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'I get to be cute and tiny and flirty and frilly and delicate and cry' says a Tweeter.

1. How does transitioning make one 'tiny and delicate'? Matter can't suddenly vanish. Science rapidly disappearing into a black hole.

2. And why does 'female' magically equal physically diminished, helpless AND infantilised?

Losing both adult physical mass and brain development?

I don't know where to start.

This is joining 'letting out a squeal because wearing pink' on my 'WTF this is an insult' list.

Got it!!!

It's Violet Elizabeth Bott.

'If I can't have what I want, I'll thcream and thream till I'm thick. And I can ... '

Today I wore skirt and summer top and sandals then changed into boots, jeans and sweatshirt to clean the oven and dig some plants. Then changed back and drank rose wine. Where am I on the gender spectrum? Oh yes. #BusyXX

But but but... iT's NoT aBoUt StErEoTyPeS!!!

I'm a big beefy farm woman, ain't nothing diminutive about me

It's missing the point talking about the different ways to be a woman. This person doesn't want to be a woman, they want to talk about being a girl.

This is a child fetishist. Is autogynaepaedophilia a word yet?

The case is also reminding me of the Challenor business www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3346800-Andrew-Gilligan-Sunday-Times-Challenor-Green-Party

Just wanted to say you are all brilliant. I'm loving #busy.

autogynaepaedophilia... ponders.

Nice screenshot Hamster just in time for Easter too....

Autopedophilia is a word.

journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/0956797616677082

'Men sexually aroused by the idea or fantasy of being the kinds of individuals to whom they are sexually attracted have an erotic-target identity inversion (ETII). We conducted an online survey to investigate the prevalence and phenomenology of ETIIs among 475 men sexually attracted to children. Autopedophilia, or sexual arousal by the idea of being a child, was common. Furthermore, autopedophilic men tended to be sexually aroused by imagining themselves as the kinds of children (with respect to gender and age) to whom they are sexually attracted'.

Wow, there's an actual term for it.

Ugh. Since all this transgender stuff became a main focus I (and many others ) have learned more about men's varied and revolting fetishes than I ever wanted to know. That stuff can't be unlearned.

I think the day will come when they will wish they hadn't let that genie out of the bottle.

70sWitch Exactly - I've learned so many words and read about so many practices I'd no idea about a year ago.

What was everyone else's WTF moment?

Since my first #stickerwoman hashtag sighting on Twitter last summer caused me to take a look around me, I've accidently seen some images I can't unsee, screamed 'aaaarrrg wtf' SO many times, realised how far feminism and gay rights and children's rights are under real threat etc etc.