I've been told several times that this doesn't really happen, that it's just a small bunch of mad TRAs on the internet. Some amazing women have done some work demonstrating that it does happen and that lesbians are being pressured to not exclude people with penises from their dating pool.
It's rape culture in action.
twitter.com/ovandout/status/1112150403238395905?s=21
300 separate examples of women being told it's transphobic to exclude people with male genitalia from the list of people lesbians want to have sex with
And
www.gettheloutuk.com/blog/category/research/lesbians-at-ground-zero.html
The study
Really powerful and absolutely disturbing. Our favourite cyclist is represented in the twitter hall of fame ...