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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Pronouns - an invasion of privacy?

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abuseofpowercomesasnosurprise · 10/03/2019 08:51

I read on here a few days ago about one of the members at a meeting where everyone had to go around and declare their pronouns, despite the group consisting of 90% women. Isn't it a rather rude invasion of privacy ask this of people? A bit like asking someone they've just met to declare their sexual preferences, or their social class background, or their ethnicity, or perhaps more pertinently their mental health status? I object not least because it forces self-definition through gender ideology's own language, to suggests that women using default pronouns conform to and are happy with oppressive gender stereotypes, but because it's not anyone's business . Why should it matter to anyone else if I like wearing high heels and make-up or doing DIY, or even - shock horror - both?! It's bad enough when they ask for 'gender identity' on job application forms, but at least they're private. Isn't this violating some sort of code of conduct - in the workplace, for example? Isn't the point of equality and diversity policies to make issues like 'gender identity' irrelevant?

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TakenForSlanted · 13/03/2019 06:25

Also, does that work for names? And, of so, are "MEng MBA" now mengmbas pronouns?

BettyFilous · 13/03/2019 08:53

My workplace is woke AF. It’s only a matter of time before this happens. Thanks to this thread I’ve given it some thought. If pushed to respond, I think I’ll go with: “as an adult human female, mine are she/her.” It acknowledges biology without overtly rejecting gender ideology.

DodoPatrol · 13/03/2019 09:42

I think I'd have to go with:

'Honestly, I don't mind. If anyone here has any non-obvious ones I'll probably get them wrong anyway as I'm not great at names, so it's only fair if I don't worry which ones you use about me.'

EcclesThePeacock · 13/03/2019 10:03

The thing that was really bad was some sort of guidance I read a while ago - which basically said you had to treat this seriously, that it wasn't ok to say 'I really don't care'. It's that level of imposition of belief which is so wrong.

Treefloof · 13/03/2019 13:53

which basically said you had to treat this seriously, that it wasn't ok to say 'I really don't care
So holiness and highness as answers are not serious enough? Damn

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