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Help a brother out

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Glinner · 26/02/2019 15:06

Hello, you coven of squints far right Nazi witches!

I'd like to collect some anecdotes about when and why you first became involved in the debate about gender ideology and activism. I've also asked on Twitter but thought this might be good for longer answers.

Please tell me your stories!

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LangCleg · 11/03/2019 18:41

Well quite. It's interesting, that in an attempt to derail, they have actually formed part of the narrative.

How did you first peak trans? Well, I noticed that every time I tried to post about it in an area specifically delineated for me to post about, there was inappropriate boundary violation.

Go figure!

Persifleur · 11/03/2019 19:01

Oh wow, Hera's post has been deleted. No doubt for the personal attack. Hera was telling us to ignore all our sources of information because they were tainted but didn't actually suggest any more reliable ones (like The Groan or Prick News?).
In a way I'm sorry to see the post go because its arguments were non existent and basically amounted to telling us we were ignorant prejudiced people being led by the nose by the right wing press to be alarmed over nothing at all. The misogyny was on display in all its filthy glory.

Oldermum156 · 11/03/2019 19:06

I think mine is back about 5 pages :P

Charley50 · 11/03/2019 19:35

This whole thread should be published as a nice pastel pink coffee table book, nicely illustrated with images of transwo-men in all their glory, trampling over women, invading our spaces and sport and awards, as they do, with their manly entitlement and aggression, ridiculously claiming femaleness, in the same breath, "kill the Terf, shut the fuck up Terf, it's all about meeeeeeeeeee.... "

That TRA (and their allies) refuse to see the irony of this whole farce actually beggars belief. When am I going to wake up and find it was all a bad dream? Someone pinch me please.

Anyway, Im thinking the page borders could be a nice pearl necklace pattern.

Hera2 · 11/03/2019 21:13

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Knicknackpaddyflak · 11/03/2019 21:19

Bearded and tattooed women, actually. Fine with that. Fine with women in any shape, form or appearance, or with any amount of cosmetic surgery. Women friendly over here.

Now where were we Glinner?

BettyDuMonde · 11/03/2019 21:20

Tattoos aren’t gendered. Haven’t been since the invention of the electric tattoo machine in 1891

Signed, A. Completely Tattooed Lady

(PS, neither are beards: www.standard.co.uk/news/uk/i-was-horrendously-bullied-bearded-lady-opens-up-about-life-with-facial-hair-a3584741.html

www.grrlalex.co.uk/what-is-transgender/ )

Welcome to 2019, Hera!

Persifleur · 11/03/2019 21:22

Hera, please tell us where we should go to learn the truth. I really don't like like the idea of having been gaslighted, even though I thought I could innoculate myself from Murdoch's seductive empire.

ComputerSaysMo · 11/03/2019 21:25

Fear of tattooed women. Next they’ll be warning us about women wearing rouge. Bring the smelling salts! 😂

pastabest · 11/03/2019 21:29

Diapers? Heritage Foundation?

Think you are on the wrong continent Hera2

For what it's worth though I don't have a leader (unless you count my 2 year old and her constant demands for swisps and keys (crisps and cheese). I apologise, it must be very confusing for you though all these women having independent thoughts and you not really being sure how it's happening.

enjoy yourselves in defeat who? Women being defeated by men? Again?

peak peak peak

Thanks Glinner for the very informative thread.

BettyDuMonde · 11/03/2019 21:30

Nora Hildebrant sends her best regards!

Help a brother out
Persifleur · 11/03/2019 21:39

the uneducated unenlightened also deny transmen, with their beards, bald heads, tattoos, etc are anything but misguided lesbians.
Hera, WTF does this mean? Are they or aren't they? In any case, I doubt that many women on FWR have any problem accepting then.

Ereshkigal · 11/03/2019 22:00

we know that you'll never win

Who is "we" and what do you mean by "win"? Win what? Keep our sex based rights?

Hera2 · 11/03/2019 22:19

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Persifleur · 11/03/2019 22:27

Oh, come on, Hera. Don't keep us guessing. Who's been racist, and who's going to be reported for breaching the Equalities Act? I'm so gaslighted I can't tell.
Please tell me what I should be reading so I can be as well educated as you.

ComputerSaysMo · 11/03/2019 22:29

One of the other things that peaked me was ransoms pretending they know the law for countries they don’t live in, and then threatening me with it. Ho hum.

Ereshkigal · 11/03/2019 22:30

Anyway, away to my bed for tomorrow I'll be reporting people breaking the law in this thread - the EA2010 mainly.

How is anyone on this thread "breaking the law"? How funny you are.

Ereshkigal · 11/03/2019 22:32

And LOL do you think assuming you're American is racist? Grin

LangCleg · 11/03/2019 22:34

Several hundred lurkers in two years' time on the next tell us how you got involved thread:

Well, I was reading this thread on Mumsnet with loads of informative posts about people's experiences and suddenly....

Ereshkigal · 11/03/2019 22:34

Fair point Lang.

WorkingItOutAsIGo · 11/03/2019 22:36

Gosh, Aunt Bunbury is calling for a visit, folks.

pastabest · 11/03/2019 22:37

I think you mean xenophobia. Americans aren't a race.

Just like men aren't women.

Persifleur · 11/03/2019 22:39

Yeah, obvious troll is obvious.
I apologise.
Blush

abuseofpowercomesasnosurprise · 11/03/2019 22:42

Hera2 Thank-you for giving everyone reading some clear examples of the kind of abuse women are facing from TRAs:

  • Gaslighting
  • Unwarranted legal threats
  • Sexist belittling
  • Faux victimhood (I'm so much more oppressed than you...)
  • Misogynistic superiority complex
  • False accusations
  • Ad hominem attacks (you're all far-right, pro-life etc etc)
  • Talking over women and dominating their spaces, transgressing their boundaries. Basically, TRAs are MRA's. Thank-you for demonstrating to everyone how woman-hating you are on a widely read public forum and peaking more people.
ArcheryAnnie · 11/03/2019 22:46

I think many women's entry into this debate was reading threads on Mumsnet, and seeing the batshit behaviour and threats directed against other mums by trans activists visiting these threads....

...it's all gone a bit meta here.