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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Miley Cyrus is heterosexual

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Kettleon80 · 21/02/2019 17:35

www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-6729763/Miley-Cyrus-queer-hetero-relationship-Liam-Hemsworth.html

Miley Cyrus is in a heterosexual marriage but appears to think she has redefined it as queer and 'genderless'.

The emperor has no clothes.

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ChattyLion · 21/02/2019 22:24

I know hetero serial monogamist women who call themselves "queer" without irony.

I do too. I cringe for them and literally have Katy Perry’s ‘I Kissed A Girl’ going though my head..

OlennasWimple · 21/02/2019 22:35

I'm not sure I could cope with having the delectable Chris Hemsworth as my BiL....

Katvonfelttipeyebrows · 21/02/2019 22:45

I think it's right to be on the FWR board.
We need woke twattery from the likes of Miley to cheer us up from all the heavy shit.

LuggsaysNotaWomen · 21/02/2019 23:02

I know hetero serial monogamist women who call themselves "queer" without irony.

Tbf though, the fastest way to stop all this nonsense would be if all us middle aged heterosexual women stared to call ourselves queer etc. Nothing cools the proverbial quivering loins of the Special Brigade than your mum joining in.

CoachBombay · 21/02/2019 23:03

As a bisexual woman married to a man I'm nothing more than that really. I'm not "queer" or redefining anything!

In short DH I think gets a pervy kick off my old sex stories with ex partners who are women and probably. ecretly fantasises about them, but would never tell me that. He probably has burried in the back of his brain somewhere some wild fantasy that were going to go dogging or suddenly become swingers or something, but again wouldn't dare bring it up because he knows the response he'd get. 😂

I always just preferred dating men in the long term, and personally often found women too difficult to date. I'd mainly just used to shag them or have short flings with women, that's about it really?! Hardly radical!!

RhymingRabbit · 21/02/2019 23:05

@Luggsays 🤣

Haworthia · 21/02/2019 23:09

I wonder if there’s anyone born before 1990 who defines as “pansexual”. I also wonder whether there’s anyone who defines as “pansexual” who can actually say they’ve had sex with a men and women, trans or not. Because it all seems rather... theoretical to me.

No no, I’m not bi, I’m pan. Well I haven’t slept with a trans person, but I really need you all to know that I definitely would because I’m so woke”.

RhymingRabbit · 21/02/2019 23:10

Although... i have to admit. I don't really understand what queer means? Is it anyone who isn't heterosexual??

RhymingRabbit · 21/02/2019 23:13

I know what your saying @Haworthia .. but by that logic no one has any sexuality until they have sex?

littlbrowndog · 21/02/2019 23:17

I dunno really
Shag who you want just don’t make up,fancy names for it

Haworthia · 21/02/2019 23:33

I take your point @RhymingRabbit but I still find the “pan” label more about virtue signalling than anything else.

RhymingRabbit · 21/02/2019 23:58

I suppose all labels are about the context in which they are used. "I am pansexual" on a tinder profile - totally appropriate. "I am pansexual" said in a loud voice to wee Jean on her way to the Bingo on the Number 23 bus- virtue signalling.

FloralBuntingIsObnoxious · 22/02/2019 00:39

I really don't like the 'reclaiming' of queer by a generation that by and large knows fuck all about how horrible it is to have it spat at you in hatred, and then grabs it greedily like a handful of sweeties and defines it as all the funky trendy blue hairs being edgy and emotionally spiritual.

7Days · 22/02/2019 00:45

Agreed Floral.

But I must take issue. Not all queers have blue hair. Some of them do have pierced tongues. So yanno, maybe you should educate yourself, hmmm?

FloralBuntingIsObnoxious · 22/02/2019 00:50

You know, I'm quite gutted about the blue hair thing. I quite fancied a lovely royal blue myself.

I did once nearly have my eyebrow pierced but I bottled it after my friend told me scary stories about catching nerves and paralyzing your face so that you looked permanently surprised. I wanted to be a bit wild, not look like post extensive surgery Barry Manilow, so I passed.

InionEile · 22/02/2019 02:11

I think she is free to label herself and her sexuality any way she wants, as we all are, but it's a step too far to say that she is 'redefining' heterosexual marriage in having had relationships with both men and women.

Human sexuality has always been fluid, sometimes of necessity. In our homophobic past, it was very difficult for LGB people to openly live in a way that matched with their sexuality so it was common enough for people who would nowadays be openly gay to live in a straight marriage for the purposes of 'respectability'.

I'm a boring old heterosexual so what would I know but if I were gay, I would be mighty pissed off at any blue-haired 20-something with notions about how edgy they are appropriating the term 'queer' to pretend they are interesting based on a one-month fling they had in college with someone of the same sex. Kind of insulting.

ComputerSaysMo · 22/02/2019 07:24

Although... i have to admit. I don't really understand what queer means? Is it anyone who isn't heterosexual??

From what I can ascertain, it’s anyone who doesn’t have sex once a year in the missionary position with the lights off.

andyoldlabour · 22/02/2019 08:05

I am not into reading about so called "slebs", but when I see rubbish like that, I just think what a narcissistic twonk Smile

RockyFlintstone · 22/02/2019 08:54

'Pansexuality' is such woke virtue signalling.

'Oooooh look at me, I'm so inclusive, I will shag trans people because I don't see gender it's all about that spiritual connection, did I mention I'm inclusive that means I don't exclude anyone you know, because excluding people is like the worst thing anyone can do ever, even when it comes to sexual preference.

LordProfFekkoThePenguinPhD · 22/02/2019 09:00

Such a song and dance about nothing than concerns anyone but the 2 (adult and consenting) people directly involved.

Kettleon80 · 22/02/2019 09:09

Pansexuality. Totally emporers new clothes.

You are shagging makes and females, that's it. But you think you have invented sex and scaled new heights of sexuality in the meantime because the male you are shagging now calls himself trans rather than just being cool with being a male who wears lipstick.

Meanwhile you can score woke points at University and label anyone who asks a question about consent or the nature of sex as 'phobic' in some way, making you feel even more special and smug.

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Kettleon80 · 22/02/2019 09:10

The nature of this type of sex that should say

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not2daysanta · 22/02/2019 11:02

Some of you really are unhinged. Particularly Kettleon.

Jesus. You're really getting your knickers in a twist about other people's sexuality.

That you consider it an affront that someone labels their own sexuality as "pansexual" or "queer" says a lot about you. For a group so obsessed with "material reality", what "material" effect does this have on your life?

Literally none. So why are you still talking?

Kettleon80 · 22/02/2019 11:07

That's particularly nasty to call me unhinged.

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NunoGoncalves · 22/02/2019 11:08

What's the actual issue? A person who is married to a man says she's bi and doesn't care about gender? That's quite possible, isn't it?

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