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Have you ever thought maybe you are misunderstandign the 'ideology' (ie being trans)?

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Terrycotta · 13/02/2019 09:27

Some of you who aren't total haters come across as sheep who are yourselves repressed trans individuals worried about coming out and being liberated.

You say you don't conform to Gendered stereotypes but you are also afraid to discard them and truly be free of 'sex' altogether, it makes no sense.
It's funny and confusing to see you go around in circles with your wrong and confusing logic, "I'm a woman but i don't like pink and have short hair", sorry to break it to you but this isn't the words of a woman, you are a repressed transgender person, you are a man!

Woman wouldn't say half the stuff that is said here, look at yourselves, most, if not all of you are probably male brained.

It's nothing to be scared of, you are special and brave to admit it rather than constantly assume it's bad and to try.

Ask yourselves this, would actual women plot the destruction of a small minority group like you people are?

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Mummyoflittledragon · 13/02/2019 11:24

You haven’t answered my question about rugby playing dd.

OldCrone · 13/02/2019 11:24

If there was no sex could sexism exist?

It would still exist, but we wouldn't be able to name it in order to deal with it.

Datun · 13/02/2019 11:24

it's slowly happening, the idea we can ignore it and focus on who we are as people is gaining traction.

No it isn't. Show me.

PoppingBubbles · 13/02/2019 11:25

OP Will you identify me please. I'll have to keep asking. I simply cannot continue my day without knowing.

< ponders whether perhaps I'm neither male or female, but in fact just a mere pest >

Onlyinanemergency · 13/02/2019 11:25

I KNEW you meant Brian May from Queen. Although he was Married to Anita Dobson... I know you know this. I need to stop engaging...

Terrycotta · 13/02/2019 11:25

It would still exist, but we wouldn't be able to name it in order to deal with it.

What better way to deal with it than to redefine the oppressed class.

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Mummyoflittledragon · 13/02/2019 11:26

the idea we can ignore it and focus on who we are as people is gaining traction.

Well you’ve said you’re 70% male so I suggest you crawl under a rock and focus on that and I’ll focus on being a woman.

Datun · 13/02/2019 11:27

What better way to deal with it than to redefine the oppressed class.

You are already redefining men and women.

Show me all the cake baking men, who are being oppressed by rugby playing women. Or any women in fact.

Terrycotta · 13/02/2019 11:27

ponders whether perhaps I'm neither male or female, but in fact just a mere pest

You may be non binary. but I've never met you and i wouldn't want to force you into choosing a path that you are not comfortable with.

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Onlyinanemergency · 13/02/2019 11:27

I think, in order to avoid dying on dry land, fish should rename themselves sheep. Is that how it works?

LangCleg · 13/02/2019 11:27

He was born Anita Dobson, it's not dead naming as the facts are already out there.

"Bye, Den."

lunamoth581 · 13/02/2019 11:28

What better way to deal with it than to redefine the oppressed class.

That doesn’t actually make the oppression go away. It just makes it impossible to name it.

Mummyoflittledragon · 13/02/2019 11:28

PoppingBubbles
I feel the same as you about my dd. Shall we hug it out? Or would that be too confusing for you?

Datun · 13/02/2019 11:28

If this person has said they are 70% male, I suspect they are female, who is very uncomfortable being a woman, with good reason.

Or a fledgeling satirist who has jumped the shark.

BurningBright · 13/02/2019 11:28

Terrycotta - you're so right, I am confused! Please advise - am I a man or a woman?

I have birthed a child who I grew in my uterus following sexual intercourse with (what I thought was) a man. Someone with a penis, anyway. (The be-penised person quite liked football and motor racing if that helps, but was also much better at ironing than me.)

I no longer have said uterus (cancer related). So where does that leave me?

I used to have breasts that I grew myself during puberty but the ones I have now were surgically constructed after I had a bilateral mastectomy (also cancer related). As I no longer have any of the traditionally-female reproductive organs am I actually a man? Or does having had breasts reconstructed make me a transwoman?

My surgically constructed breasts are currently housed in a very pretty lacy bra, but it is NAVY BLUE! Is this allowed?

My outer garments consist of black jeans, DM boots and a man's shirt. I have short hair (although until November my hair reached my waist). I'm not wearing make up today. But sometimes I do.

At the weekend (Saturday) I went to a wedding wearing a frock and heels. This coming weekend I'm going to a football match.

What am I?

Terrycotta · 13/02/2019 11:29

That doesn’t actually make the oppression go away. It just makes it impossible to name it.

oppression never fully goes away.

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HopeMumsnet · 13/02/2019 11:29

"He was born Anita Dobson, it's not dead naming as the facts are already out there."

And now it's time to say goodbye...

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