I'm getting increasingly frustrated that we're in danger of giving too much weight to the opinions of "rational" transsexuals because they seem to be on our side.
They are still male, they are still acting in their own interests, and their families still appear to experience the same issues that other Trans Widows have been through.
Tinsel I can only begin to imagine the additional levels of deep frustration that you and other women so directly affected must rightly feel.
Time and again males perceived as being 'moderate' trans women are applauded without the actual details and the specific implications for women and children of their statements and actions being considered.