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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

And so it came to pass: Mail on Sunday - gay male couple offered fertility treatment including surrogacy

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Needmoresleep · 27/01/2019 09:42

www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-6636419/Gay-male-couple-offered-IVF-treatment-NHS-time-Britain.html

Oh ffs, think of the women.

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Fleetwoodsnack · 27/01/2019 21:50

Have you really got to wait until December for an appointment?

Yup, I've outed myself to anyone who knows me IRL because I've been ranting about this since October. I got in touch to say there seemed to be a mistake and they said no, it's a long waiting list. Well I guess my premature menopause isn't going anywhere Confused (it's more complicated than that as you can probably tell from my previous posts on this thread. But the crux of the matter is the specialist retired and he hasn't been replaced).

My pain management appointment took over 18 weeks- again, I guess it isn't going anywhere. And of course once I got the appointment I discovered i wasn't going to be able to retain one of my medications.

Ironically im in Scotland where we apparently have it better....

Iused2BanOptimist · 27/01/2019 22:06

I'm so shocked. It's ridiculous. These guys are in Scotland too ShockConfused
FIL seems to have had excellent care up there, heart bypass etc. I guess it depends whereabouts you are. And the speciality.

Oxytocindeficient · 27/01/2019 22:12

Fleetwoodsnack I just caught up properly, I’m sorry to hear what happened to you. I’m peri menopausal, it’s pretty bad. I hope you’re ok. I’m taking Menopause Support by A Vogel which has helped heaps.

Fleetwoodsnack · 28/01/2019 17:10

Thanks oxy, I'll take a look Smile

NopeNi · 28/01/2019 17:48

Poor child.

Yes, I wish we would outlaw surrogacy too.

GenderIsAPrison · 28/01/2019 19:34

We should make it illegal.

Sarahjconnor · 29/01/2019 08:42

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Iused2BanOptimist · 29/01/2019 09:31

I watched the Heritage Foundation meeting Posie attended, with very moving testaments from mothers who have lost their daughters to the cult, sterilised, given mastectomies and hysterectomies before they were twenty. It made me think about the number of surrogates that will be required in the future.
At present I assume the largest demographic seeking a surrogate are infertile women/heterosexual couples, with gay men hard on their heels opening up the market. In years to come there will be a generation of sterilised trans youth.
Where are all these baby factories going to come from? The wider implication are terrifying.

OvaHere · 29/01/2019 11:06

Yes quite Sarah

ChattyLion · 29/01/2019 13:31

I just had to google Bryan Singer. (He’s a movie Director in the US facing multiple accusations of sexual abuse of teenage boys.. ) Sad

OlennasWimple · 29/01/2019 15:12

It made me think about the number of surrogates that will be required in the future

We are heading towards Gilead faster than most of us ever thought possible

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