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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Lotl magazine: “What Do We Do About Women With A Penis

128 replies

AnyOldPrion · 24/01/2019 07:16

www.lotl.com/Lifestyle/What-Do-We-Do-About-Women-With-A-Penis-2536/

Shocking article about “reeducating” rape victims to accept penis.

Written, of course by a TW who claims to have “agonised” over the question of whether TW should be allowed in women’s most intimate events. I imagine the agonising was along the lines of how to make a suitable case that’ll allow penises in.

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AnyOldPrion · 24/01/2019 09:18

”Sorry OP I didn’t read the article.”

No need for any apology. Not sure if it’s just me, but I felt there was a slight lull in this stuff after the end of the GRA consultation. It’s now ramped up to full force bullshitting again and like you, I’m starting to feel so enraged and sickened that I may need to step away for a bit.

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LangCleg · 24/01/2019 09:18

Also how would a penis strut? Does it have tiny little feet, like The Luggage? Does it swagger when it's had a few beers?

You must admit though: the Luggage is quite creepy!

Danaquestionseverything · 24/01/2019 09:22

Luggage? I suppose that’s an euphemism for the old three bags full.

AnyOldPrion · 24/01/2019 09:26

Here you go AAK! Enjoy!*

www.lotl.com/Lifestyle/The-Often-Misunderstood-Premise-of-the-Cotton-Ceiling-2551/

*Sanity Health Warning: This article contains links to media from Riley and Avery. Excessive eye rolling may occur, coupled with nausea and gagging.

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BWatchWatcher · 24/01/2019 09:26

Firstly ‘vulva clad’? Seriously?
Secondly how can they seriously believe that a man has more rights to be in a gym locker room than a 70 year old woman?
Are only ‘attractive’ women allowed to be in changing rooms now?
Are we going to have a third space for the old, disabled, small breasted?

AngryAttackKittens · 24/01/2019 09:26

discworld.fandom.com/wiki/The_Luggage

nauticant · 24/01/2019 09:27

The Luggage is from Discworld Danaquestionseverything.

Or in this case, perhaps Dicksworld.

frazzled1 · 24/01/2019 09:29

"A trans gal's sexuality is docile, patient, hesitant, fragile"

Tell that to Karen White's victims.

LangCleg · 24/01/2019 09:29

I think I might email the DH and warn him that we can't have sex in future without his penis performing a Cis Penis Strut for me first.

AngryAttackKittens · 24/01/2019 09:30

Some lesbians might be afraid of engaging with trans women because they might fear these gray areas — they might fear accidentally hurting a trans gal’s feelings. There’s a struggle with the unfamiliar. And some lesbians might not want to date trans women because they’re thinking about long-term commitment, and children. Trans women can’t give birth to children.

On the other hand, some lesbians don’t want to date women without a uterus because “these are not fully women.” See the difference between these two?

And then there are some lesbians (all) who don't want to date transwomen because they don't find them in any way sexually attractive.

(Insert wah wah ing about how mean that is here)

LangCleg · 24/01/2019 09:30

It has come as quite the shock to me that I have reached the ripe old age of Saggy Tits without ever having witnessed a Penis Strut.

AngryAttackKittens · 24/01/2019 09:32

I think I might email the DH and warn him that we can't have sex in future without his penis performing a Cis Penis Strut for me first.

Can it be to this song?

LangCleg · 24/01/2019 09:34

YASSSSSSSSSSSSSS!

If he can't Strut with sufficient Cisness - Cisserocity? -sex is OFF.

frazzled1 · 24/01/2019 09:38

Cassie Brighter focuses her writing on intersectional feminism. As a public speaker, she has spoken and led panels on consent culture, feminism, gender identity, sex-positivity and polyamory. As a Board member for SexPositiveWorld.com, she teaches classes on consent and boundaries.

Thanks Cassie but I'll keep my consent and boundaries intact. Humans cannot change sex.

Danaquestionseverything · 24/01/2019 09:41

Thanks Nauticant and AAK. Well I was certainly on the wrong tangent there. Today has been an education Quiverfull and luggage. It’s well past wine o’clock, where’s that Pinot?

silentcrow · 24/01/2019 09:42

I have deja vu, haven't we done the whole "docile fragile butterfly penis" thing before? I'm sure I remember it coming up on the Girl Guides thread as justification for letting teenage boys share tents with girls. And that sturdy pyjamas were all that was required in terms of safeguarding. Hmm

PerspicaciaTick · 24/01/2019 09:43

If trans sexuality is so docile and fragile, why are there so many TWs online shouting so loudly about the transgressive sex they are having?

Danaquestionseverything · 24/01/2019 09:44

Yay - Stray Cats, haven’t heard them in forever. My uncle (RIP) introduced me to them.

AnyOldPrion · 24/01/2019 10:09

I have deja vu, haven't we done the whole "docile fragile butterfly penis" thing before? I'm sure I remember it coming up on the Girl Guides thread as justification for letting teenage boys share tents with girls. And that sturdy pyjamas were all that was required in terms of safeguarding

I don’t recall that specific incident, but the message is regularly repeated. Who can forget Roz K (my autocorrect tried to write Rob there - maybe it’s turning HC) purring while describing her soft fragrant ladypenis to a crowded roomful of women.

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Knicknackpaddyflak · 24/01/2019 10:19

a TW who claims to have “agonised” over the question of whether TW should be allowed in women’s most intimate events.

Agonise away. It's not your call, you're not in charge of where a woman is allowed to put her boundaries.

It is not normal, typical or acceptable in the western world to have mixed sex changing rooms, toilets, wards.

It is a normal, typical understanding of fact that humans cannot change sex, and regardless of how someone may choose to name themselves, they are the sex they were born with. You cannot compel people to believe and join your religion.

Penises are male and belong in the mens facilities with the other penises. No exceptions.

TornFromTheInside · 24/01/2019 10:19

Transwomen are human, as such they are prone to all the varied traits of humanity, not some select goody two shoes version of it.

Only... they are also laden with male biology which makes them part of the more violent / aggressive half of humanity. That's not saying they are inherently violent / aggressive, it's saying they are biological men and thus more 'llikely' to have those characteristics.

Although they might believe they are women, and have womanly feelings (whatever the hell those are), they do have a male body, so damn good proportion of their 'whole' is male. So even if they were somehow a little more passive, it's still a hell of a lot more male than a biological woman (aka 'woman').

Women don't usually hate men. They usually hate some of the behaviours and attitudes on some men.
People don't usually hate trans. They usually hate some of the behaviours and attitudes of some trans.

It's not transphobia, it's anti-wankerism.

Bluestitch · 24/01/2019 10:20

Somebody should forward this to that misogynistic prick Aidan Comerford who spent most of yesterday aggressively denying such a phenomenon as the cotton ceiling exists.

CandleConcerto · 24/01/2019 10:23

There’s no parallel in seeing an elderly or disabled women’s body and seeing a male body. The penis is the problem! Men, you fought for years to create a system whereby that appendage between your legs came to represent dominance and sexual violence - deal with the consequences.

Imnobody4 · 24/01/2019 10:32

Cassie Brighter focuses her writing on intersectional feminism. As a public speaker, she has spoken and led panels on consent culture, feminism, gender identity, sex-positivity and polyamory. As a Board member for SexPositiveWorld.com, she teaches classes on consent and boundaries.
As in consent is compulsory if you're a nice woman presumably.

TornFromTheInside · 24/01/2019 10:36

Cassie Brighter focuses her writing on intersectional feminism. As a public speaker, she has spoken and led panels on consent culture, feminism, gender identity, sex-positivity and polyamory. As a Board member for SexPositiveWorld.com, she teaches classes on consent and boundaries.

Don't give a fuck, it's still bollocks.