Let's face it, a film that can't pass the bechdel test probably isn't as good (on average) as one that can. That result should be no surprise.
On the male vs female lead thing, I wonder whether something similar is going on? A crap film with a female lead may be less likely to get made than a male one. I think there are also a certain proportion of reductive, dumb male led action films made every year, in a way that perhaps doesn't have a female led equivalent. Thus having a female lead correlates (at least to some extent) with higher quality.
When they say "female" I wonder what they mean
I think they check the star's bio and see whether it says they like pink. I can't imagine how else you'd know whether someone is a woman :-)