so, what would you do if someone referred to you as a ciswoman (and your job didn't depend on it)?

[lucydo]

this is a genuine WWYD. I belong to a church. I'm very happy there, and enjoy working in the social justice group. But the leader is very nice, very liberal (as far as they can be while working with a traditional CofE group of people). I just know at some point they'll start talking about women as ciswomen.
I would object, and leave the group if my objection isn't acted on. But would that mean that I was being an arse, or just lucky (unlike those in paid employment where this crops up) to be able to do it?

I too would politely question them.

I believe that what genderists call "gender" could be more accurately described as "personality". Since everyone has one of those and they're all different having a different word to describe each one isn't going to work very well, so how about we call people by their names instead?

You could be incredibly annoying about this if you felt like it. Oh, you were saying we should have a father's group at the church. Did you remember to invite all the transmen fathers? Have facilities for fathers who're currently breastfeeding been arranged? You haven't done that? That's a bit bigoted of you.

When the shoe is moved to the other foot some men can have a brief moment of self awareness, and if they instead get angry then you can point out how hypocritical they're being.