Cissexual Vagphobia

[Katvonblackdeath]

Dear plague spreading sisters!

Look! Here's another new thing for people to be. Yep. Vagphobic.

From the twitter feed Vagphobia is mainly suffered by gay men who have a weird sexual desire towards other people with penises.

Although I suppose females could be Vagphobic too although.
ARRGHHH what is that in my pants.

Guilt tripping people into shagging usually never works.
People desiring you is not a human right.

"You have a vagina, you get treated like garbage."

That young person is soooo close to a lightbulb moment, but it's just out of their grasp.

The answer (as always) is more feminism, not less.

(Oh, and Viz-style top tip - you have a vag, you fancy people with penises - have you considered relationships with straight men? The ones I've had relationships with love vaginas and vulvas...)

I'm still struggling to get my head round cissexual, though I appreciate the bubonic name changes. Bit like the Christmas ones, but more deadly

It feels like nothing has really changed sometimes. You have a vagina, you get treated like garbage.

How incredibly revealing. I feel bad for this person, a little bit. Only a little bit though - they're not actually entitled to sex with gay men.

Imagine! Saying "I want out of the category of people with vaginas" doesn't make anyone decide vaginas are more desirable.

The word you're looking for to describe those men is "gay", love.

It's bonkers, isn't it? You have 90% of the male sex who potentially would be interested in you, so you decide to try to guilt trip the 10% who will never be interested in you into some sort of a pity shag. All in the name of validating your identity.

It's not a good look.

That’s bonkers. Isn’t that poster a woman? Is she saying she has a phobia of her own vagina or other vaginas? Is she trying to bag women, who turn out to not want her bits? My head hurts.

My. What desparate homophobia.

Are they trying to force men into a shag to cure them of the gay?

Maybe you should point your vag in Doctor Haddock’s direction.

He’s very big on demanding gay people be open to the genitalia of the opposite sex so he can’t possibly turn you down.

It's bonkers, isn't it? You have 90% of the male sex who potentially would be interested in you, so you decide to try to guilt trip the 10% who will never be interested in you into some sort of a pity shag. All in the name of validating your identity.

It's tooth-grindingly STUPID.

Sorry- penny has just dropped. And it’s still bonkers.

What times we are living in. I've scoffed at people saying it's the end of civilisation but I'm now starting to think they have something.

Bonkers. Just...bonkers.

What happened to enthusiastic consent? So much of this smacks of coercion.

Don't like dick/vag? You're such a transphobe! Try it, or I'll have you arrested for a hate crime. Hot.

It's insane - they can't even see how insane they are being.
Genitals matter, along with the rest of the body. We're allowed to be as picky as we want about this.

I honestly can’t understand the mindset of someone like this. What did they honestly think would happen once they transitioned? That gay men would be falling at their feet? Unbelievable sense of entitlement or just utterly delusional.

Almost as if.... Genitals indicate sex and sex is.... IMPORTANT

It's the sense of entitlement which makes me think something odd is going on here.

Many years ago, I had a really close friend wrestling with gender dysphoria and trying to decide whether they were a transman or not. Many, many late night sessions with a bottle of wine and a pizza trying to get to the bottom of it. And I could see how sex was a massive massive problem for them - because the very secondary sexual characteristics that turned their girlfriend on (they were in a lesbian relationship) were the ones they felt most dysphoric about. It was a mind fuck of epic proportions for them.

This situation is totally the reverse of that - no hint of dysphoria, just a massive hissy fit that gay men don't accept that this person's vag is a "gentleman vag" and thus totes acceptable, nay, desirable, in the context of a gay male relationship.

That young person is soooo close to a lightbulb moment, but it's just out of their grasp..
😂😂😂

Maybe you should point your vag in Doctor Haddock’s direction. He’s very big on demanding gay people be open to the genitalia of the opposite sex so he can’t possibly turn you down.

You know, I’m QUITE sure that if only our own dear doctor weren’t already happily married, he would LOVE to demonstrate just how deeply he really believes that “trans men are men”. Of course he would. It’s not like he likes making fish jokes, is it?

Maybe LOJ will oblige

What's also tooth-grindingly stupid is a lack of a vowel in the middle of that made up word.

I’ve just made up a word (well, everyone else does these days)

Trans-cel: Involuntarily celebate due to transition.

Genitals are important in choosing a sexual partner because we use them to fuck with. This is not difficult to understand!

Sorry to break it to you, Aspie, but Tumblr was at least a year ahead of you there.

And you really really can't help what you're attracted to. I love women far more than men but I just don't fancy them. I almost wish I did but I don't. It's hardwired in us all.
This narrative of theirs is homophobic. It makes me so cross.

Obviously this is a tranman so it'll just get ignored but I wish the gay guys would wake up to this bullshit too. I think they might be starting but come on boys!