Cissexual Vagphobia

[Katvonblackdeath]

Dear plague spreading sisters!

Look! Here's another new thing for people to be. Yep. Vagphobic.

From the twitter feed Vagphobia is mainly suffered by gay men who have a weird sexual desire towards other people with penises.

Although I suppose females could be Vagphobic too although.
ARRGHHH what is that in my pants.

*transman so they'll

Sorry

Ah have they got transloop too ? When people mean to say “Help I’m stuck in a transloop and can’t get out” but give up and shout “transphobe “ instead.

Genuinely staggered.
Is it only gay men who are vagphobic or am I, a straight woman who is fond of my own vag but not sexually attracted to vags generally, vagphobic too?

The mental contortions are dizzying.

In their own words:

"genital preference is not transphobic", I kind of want to scream eternally into the night. Because that's the most common form of transphobia I personally encounter as a gay trans masculine person.

Boys are all over me until they find out I have a vagina.
Then it's suddenly weird and uncomfortable because they want something I don't have. Boys have left me over this.

They're a woman who thinks they're a man, and a gay man at that, who is angry at (real) gay men for not wanting to have a sexual relationship with them (as a woman).

I suppose one positive is that we've found a woman doing this cotton ceiling shit.

If it doesn't matter if you have a vagina or penis, because it apparantly doesn't matter for your gender, why doesn't she sleep with other transmen then?

Maybe you should point your vag in Doctor Haddock’s direction. He’s very big on demanding gay people women be open to the genitalia of the opposite sex

Fixed that for you. He's very respectful when disagreeing with gay blokes.

The way it's worded it sounds like he wasn't aware that gay men would not want to have sex with a vagina until he tried dating.

I think people need to be more honest with trans young people. In the real world most people like to date people who's genitals match their gender presentation. If you like the opposite sex, your probably best off sticking with your bio gender. Especially women, I can see many men liking men thar look like men but have vaginas, that is a very small target market.

Heterosexual female gets the sads because homosexual males don't want to fuck her

All the eyerolls

Newsflash - gay men like dick

I do feel sorry for them, it's awful but as a menopausal woman completely normal not being fancied by people you fancy.

But I did have to examine the tweet with a furrowed brow for some time. I wonder if they have considered trying heterosexual men again and seeing how it goes? You know, just encountering people in a non-heterophobic kind of way?

It's not a good look.

It's quite a telling look.

I wonder if they have considered trying heterosexual men again and seeing how it goes?

Having heterosexual sex would not be validating. It would be at odds with their gender identity.

So much of this stuff looks indistinguishable from mental illness.

NotANotMan..”all the eye rolls”. 😁
Quite.
Also the weirdness of feeling entitled to have people fancy you at all really.

Putting all the 'making up new words' aside, I too feel sorry for them, underneath all this seems to be a person who still hasn't found what they think they were looking for. Transitioning hasn't resolved issues they had they are still there.

It feels like nothing has changed sometimes. You have a vagina you get treated like garbage

I agree, so close, but just outside their grasp. 'If I were a boy then everything would be great' But it isn't, you can't escape your biology, the issues you have will still be there. You need to resolve those issues first. It is a travesty that appropriate support is seen as such an evil and it is affirmation all the way.

In one way it’s hilarious - gap men in liking cock shocker!

But really it’s so offensive. Gay men have been imprisoned, assaulted, had their lives ripped apart because they are gap. And now someone comes along who could have sex with men at any time and face no discrimination and says that tripe. No history, no empathy, no understanding. Just me me me.

Shit! Bloody spell check. Gay men not gap men!!

I'm bloody confused. I'm a straight man. If I found out that the woman I wanted to sleep with had a penis I would be quite upset about this, not being gay and all.

But that would be transphobic following this logic? And by being straight I would be committing a hate crime for not wanting cock?

The fuck is this shit?

There is one thing I would like answered. I met a chap who after a shit period in his life had a mental break and genuinely believed he was a 18th century French poet. Ie, he believed he was something he demonstrably was not. One thing in the years of therapy he had was that he was working towards recognising himself as Jim the accountant again. His being a poet wasn't validated and encouraged, it was questioned and challenged in a safe environment. He was not given a fucking gite and 100ft of parchment and let loose in a political party to argue the rights of man and the benefits of a 10 day week.

I honestly can't see how a sexual dysphoria is any different. Ie declaring yourself something that you are demonstrably not.

Welcome to the madhouse, Biggrey.

Biggrey absolutely.

Though it is quite difficult to imagine not wanting cock [stares into another world] [grateful for straight men]

But that would be transphobic following this logic? And by being straight I would be committing a hate crime for not wanting cock?

You're getting it! Don't forget that it's a ladydick if the person says it is. Oh and they're working on removing your legal right to press charges against the person who tells you they're female and then suddenly produces something unexpected once in bed, because it's transphobia and infringes on their privacy. Or something.

It has just occurred to me that this is exactly the time line foul ol Ron from Discworld must have experienced.

I too feel like retiring under a bridge muttering "Bugrit!" and "Millennium Hand and Shrimp"

It the only thing that makes sense.

Biggreygoose I totally agree with you. However I’ve previously been deleted for saying similar.

That account in the OP though? That has to be a troll? Surely?

Makes the dating minefield even more exciting!

I feel Intimacy is increasingly so difficult to achieve.
Transitioning hasn't resolved issues they had, they are still there.

No shit sherlock.

Name changed so I never forget that moment of clarity.

Bonkers. Almost self harming in aspects. Creating a situation where you set other people up to reject you and your biology (as you yourself do) and then are angry and blame them and loathe yourself even more. And they say it isn't a mental health condition

And obviously abusive to the people that get set up and deceived. They are used then blamed and made the enemy. So messed up.