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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Transwomen are women

46 replies

Sexnotgender · 18/11/2018 16:36

Is a transphobic statement.

Why are we erasing trans identities?

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AnyOtherPerson · 18/11/2018 19:35

I think anti-women activists consider they are women when they want access to women’s spaces and rights, but transwomen when that gives them privilege.

They are women, but superior/oppressed in every respect and everyone must pander to them.

Allycumpooster · 18/11/2018 19:39

TWAW denies all differences, erases women and our rights and does nothing for trans people except deny them reality and true self-acceptance. It locks people into a frenzied and neurotic life of attempting to police the perceptions and beliefs of everybody else and avoids the very real medical needs and lived experiences of those who have transitioned.

This made so much sense to me. Thank you for being so articulate, your post has summed up what I have been wanting to say for weeks

Allycumpooster · 18/11/2018 19:42

It’s like they have turned womaning into a competitive sport, they want to be women but more victimised, oppressed, hard done by and abused than any actual women. Trans women are extreme women.

VickyEadie · 18/11/2018 19:44

This again?

It'll be this until and unless it ceases to be the single most important thing threatening women's safety, privacy and right to define themselves.

Don't visit if you don't like it.

happydappy2 · 18/11/2018 19:45

Agree, trans identities are being erased if we lump these stunning and brave new women in with boring old ordinary wimmin.

Women are women, transwomen are transwomen.

TipseyTorvey · 18/11/2018 19:49

I am a tree. Or a lampost. Whatever it is I demand you address me in the correct manner...I'll decide what that is when I decide what it is but you MUST obey. You, however, are what I decide YOU are and don't argue.

Myapplesnotyours · 18/11/2018 20:00

Well, I’ll never believe that TWAW
I do understand the point being made that if TWAW then their identities are being erased.
I also agree with Allycumpooster

Allycumpooster · 18/11/2018 21:12

Oh cripes, don’t listen to me! I have no idea what I’m talking about Grin.
I find the statement TWAW deeply offensive. I have no interest in being better at being a woman than a man. I have no idea what being a woman actually involves and I have been one for 47 years.

hellandhairnets · 18/11/2018 22:12

Thanks Ally. I think I was feeling more ranty than articulate, but still.

The trans people I gel with are those who have reached a place of self-acceptance - and acceptance of reality. Even if sometimes we may differ in some views, their sense of self doesn't rest on my validation or deny me my reality - they know and accept who they are and that we are different and that's ok.

Whereas TWAW forces us all into a narrative so fragile and easily dismantled by reality that TRAs are on a constant uphill battle to maintain it. It is not psychologically healthy. It is like being stuck permanently in a state of denial where everything - especially reality, or those with different opinions - is an existential threat. All focus is on control and policing the outside world because your identity will collapse if anything remotely challenging it seeps through. It's no way to live really. You're on a hiding to nothing in the long run if you do that.

It is why you get so much drama, hypersensitivity and eggshell-treading. So witness, for instance, the differences between trans people like Miranda Yardley, Fionne Orlander etc who have long liberated themselves from that trap, and TRAs like Lily M, who clearly haven't.

DontDribbleOnTheCarpet · 18/11/2018 22:30

I do wonder how much damage is being done to transwomen who just want to live their lives and generally get on with stuff, because of the attention-seeking shrieking batshittery of the more extreme AGP end of the transwoman spectrum.

lassupthebrew · 18/11/2018 22:36

Don'tDribbleOnThecarpet - see that blog linked on page 1 of this thread. It is doing a lot of damage.

EarlyWalker · 18/11/2018 22:41

Transwoman are not biological woman, they are transwoman.

lassupthebrew · 18/11/2018 22:42

In fact on Twitter today one of those trans people who rejects the mantra that you refer to has been told to consider an escape plan out of the country as terrorists are after her. This is what extreme trans ideology has led to.

KayM2 · 18/11/2018 22:49

" Transwomen are women". Well, it depends what we mean, doesn't it? Biologically, it ain't so. Though it is dodgy ground, as there are many interex and chromosomal abnormalites all around us, but basically;

"Transwomen are not biologically women". Ok, then so what.... we move on to the small print;, don't we? Lets try; " Transwomen are, in effect, under UK law, for all practical purposes women, if they have a Gender Recognition Certificate" ""

That's OK, but some don't. So they are not women. But would anyone be able to tell? Because believe me, you can't always tell.

itsbritneybiatches · 18/11/2018 22:53

What if a natal norm women says she is a trans women.

KayM2 · 18/11/2018 23:24

That is a gnomic comment, if ever I saw one, britneythingy . :-)

itsbritneybiatches · 18/11/2018 23:31

 I'm not sure what that means

FekkoThePenguin · 18/11/2018 23:42

morningstaronline.co.uk/article/communists-call-protection-womens-spaces

Blimey comrades!

LetsPretendToBeWoke · 19/11/2018 05:26

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LetsPretendToBeWoke · 19/11/2018 05:54

Transwomen are women is indeed a transphobic statement.

As is being against self ID yet fully supporting a certain number of TW that you have deemed as 'good enough to be women'.

I'm not sure why so many posters here announce 'I'm against self ID but you lot are transphobes' without understanding just how transphobic they are being.

FekkoThePenguin · 19/11/2018 07:46

It’s like a snappy chant that needs a bit of thought.

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