When I came out as a lesbian nearly 40 years ago after separating from my husband ,my mother thought the sky would fall in !
I lost most of my friends , and when the so called friends realised they were wrong , I didnt want to know them ! And still dont !
In her last Few years Mum, was still expecting me to come to my senses and asked me in front of my girlfriend , have you got a boyfriend yet ?
Thinking if I put a dress on and grew my hair , I would conform to her view of normality ! Ha ha fat chance
like all the parents of us lesbians and gay men 30/40 years it was a phase we were all going through apparently ?
and the daughter my father forced me to give up for adoption when I was 16 is also a lesbian , I am happy for her , that she is happy and in a loving relationship
I can remember at an LGF meeting 35 years ago hearing one day we would all know someone who was HIV
and 25 years ago when LGTF came about how we would all know someone who was Transsexual
but it still worry s us lesbians , the amount of young women having chest surgeries , not taking hormones or having Hysterectomy's , but morphing into Demi Boi,s, using they /them pronouns but still in a relationship with another Demi Boi , but still planning children
we have all tried talking to them till we are blue in the face , they look at us old lesbians as if we are the mad ones !
If history has taught us nothing, its none of our business ! nobody has the right to impose their values on someone else's life
so don't fall out with friends over this , Politics or religion