This is so good thanks Tom Farr.
I have been struggling to understand how people who think themselves woke apparently understand the structural power imbalances inherent to racism but not with sexism.
I love that he recounts the awkward story from his past. It's such a gift to admit when you were wrong and to be willing to share how your thinking has changed. Trans activism by contrast seems to be so much entitled chiding and shouting and so devoid of thought.