I just listened to the JH interview re ROGD with a young transman and a Tavi rep (didn’t catch either name sadly), I thought it was an interesting discussion but didn’t really go very far at all into the issues.
However I did LOL (literally) at the hair colour comment - the convo went something like:
JH: so how do other people react?
TM: when I disclose, people find it surprising and hard to work out my gender assigned at birth. I like surprising people. I’m an artist.
JH: yes.... that explains the hair colour...