BoreOfWhabylon
Ah, ok. I got into an exchange with one of them, do you remember? I think I asked something along the lines of did you transition so you would be treated a certain way?
I seem to remember they were polite, happy to engage, but couldn't really explain why exactly they wanted to transition. Just that they did. It made me understand that gender dysphoria can be fairly inexplicable. It just is.
I still think it's to do stereotypes and wanted to be treated in the way you think a stereotypical woman is treated.
Or so you can act in the way you think a stereotypical woman would act.
But, it did go some way to making me accept gender dysphoria as something very real. And definitely distinct from cross dressing/fetish.