The fact that men used to wear heels and now heels = sexy womanly woman is an argument that what's associated with which sex in terms of clothes etc is socially constructed, and can therefore be deconstructed, evolve over time, etc. Which means that wanting to wear heels doesn't mean you have any sort of inner womanly essence - maybe you're just stylish, maybe you identify as a 17th Century aristocrat and would be happier with some frills and a nice pair of breeches too.
Does he think that everyone who disagrees with him about innate genderfeels wants men to dress like lumberjacks? Because if so that's pretty funny. And sad, but also funny. Isn't he in his 30s? You'd think he'd be aware that the 80s and the New Romantics happened, and that most of the eeevil woman he wants to enjoy our Erasure did, but many preferred Adam Ant.