I will treat trans women as if they are women and trans men as if they are men and in every respect behave as if they were the sex they declare themselves to be even if I do not believe they really are
This is the bit that TRAs really don't seem to get. The vast majority of people don't believe that TWAW and TMAM. They just don't. Generally people will be nice and polite and try not to hurt people's feelings, but no-one believes.