'I have not, do not and never intend to engage in choking or strangling in consensual sex'.

[placemats]

As part of a living will so that those of us who are single and looking for a new partner make this a prerequisite in writing.

I'm just so shocked at the number of women who are murdered now and the defence is she wanted to engage in choke play.

Anyway, unless I'm banned, I have made my intentions quite clear on a public forum.

Agree with you, Placemats. I'm actually surprised that more women aren't turning away from sexual relationships altogether now. It seems to be actually getting dangerous. Perhaps I'm just getting a one sided view from spending too long on these kinds of forums now, I don't know.

It's as if women need to make video messages before every sexual encounter saying what they do and don't intend to do with the man in question. It's unbelievable that accidental choking and throat slitting are being accepted as defences. It's horrible and frightening.

But men will still use the argument that we got caught up in the moment and wanted it at the time.

Yes, we women are stupid and are always changing our minds, despite the most widely used form of contraception being female sterilisation which necessitates a consent form.

www.ined.fr/en/everything_about_population/demographic-facts-sheets/faq/most-widely-used-contraceptive-methods-world/

Yes I saw another case in the news today. It’s sickening that these men are believed in court when they say she asked for it. Of course they’d bloody say that! Have the jurors lost all power of critical thinking?

Agree with you, Placemats. I'm actually surprised that more women aren't turning away from sexual relationships altogether now. It seems to be actually getting dangerous.

^ THIS

"Your honour, the plaintiff was obviously into kinky sex, as evidenced by her need to specify how far she was prepared to go. No normal woman would feel the need to specify such a thing..."

Can there be a plaintiff if it's a murder charge?

After the recent case discussed on here where the woman had her throat cut, couple of days later there were TWO on the same day same page bbc.

One used drunk as excuse the other is using the kinky sex gone wrong excuse.

Always an excuse from these murdering bastards.

Placemats:

Swap plaintiff for victim if they didn't survive the attack; you get the point though, I'm sure...

I do. Thanks.

Depressing though, all the same.