Less concerned about having it all as I am about all women having the fundamentals and working from there, tbh. Everyone makes their own choices about how they choose to live their lives. I would just like the societies we live in to be less weighted in favour of men getting to do whatever the hell they like, and women being beholden to their biology.
All the systems are unbalanced - medical, political, financial etc. in that the default is always men. I just want that redressed.