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PlectrumElectrum · 20/06/2018 16:01

There's a woman on twitter trying to raise funds for a legal challenge to be able to bury her daughter. She's a comedian I've long admired & she's going through a heartbreaking ordeal just to bury her child.

She's Ada Vidal @thetwerkinggirl on twitter - you can get a link to her PayPal page from there.

Thanks.

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TheLastMermaid · 20/06/2018 16:36

Where is she or is her child an adult?

I thought it was now free to bury a child in the UK? Its through the Childs Funeral Fund.

If not applicable I'll donate too OP.

Iamagreyhoundhearmeroar · 20/06/2018 16:37

A legal challenge? What's the barrier to burying her child?

PeakPants · 20/06/2018 16:38

I believe her daughter was in her 20s.

TheLastMermaid · 20/06/2018 16:40

Sorry, I missed the legal challenge angle.

Can you explain a bit more OP or link to her twitter thread please? Thanks.

Problematique · 20/06/2018 16:40

I can't work out anything from her twitter. Is there any info about this before people donate?

PurpleDaisies · 20/06/2018 16:42

What’s the story here? I can’t figure it out.

shakeyourcaboose · 20/06/2018 16:43

What is the legal challenge?

shakeyourcaboose · 20/06/2018 16:45

I've had a Google and from what l can see they were estranged, and lm hoping this is wrong, but there's statements that part of Vidal's stand up routine is how ugly her daughter is?

ballsballsballs · 20/06/2018 16:49

She has two daughters, an adult who passed away and a baby.

At 14 her daughter became involved in a bad relationship with an older man. She became a young prostitute at 18 and started taking drugs. She died young, I think of suicide.

The boyfriend, the daughter's violent absent father and her grandmother have teamed up against Ava to prevent her burying her daughter.

Iamagreyhoundhearmeroar · 20/06/2018 17:12

That can’t be right Confused. Nobody can prevent a lawful burial. Where is the body currently?

PeakPants · 20/06/2018 17:22

From what I can tell, the daughter's older man was in fact Ava Vidal's ex-boyfriend. Ava sent her daughter away to Barbados at age 15 to live with her grandmother. Ava's ex-boyfriend struck up contact again and the grandmother permitted it. Ava is saying the ex is a pedophile etc. The daughter then got hooked on drugs. I believe she died abroad. Don't know about any stand-up routines.

To be honest, the story has a lot of holes. I have sympathy for her but I think if you send your child abroad to live with relatives, you have to accept that you have given up your parental responsibility really and that a grandmother who has effectively been the de-facto parent for the past 10 years or so will also have a claim. I don't think I will donate.

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