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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

New guidelines - we aren't allowed to refer to natal sex

681 replies

Maryz · 14/06/2018 11:44

According to KateMumsnet:

"We also thought it might be useful to clarify our thinking about general terms for trans people. Having said that TIM is not okay, it seems a bit illogical to allow other terms which hang upon natal sex."

Well that's that really, isn't it.

We are all being told to pretend that men have become women.

Am I going to be deleted/banned for this post?

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Macareaux · 15/06/2018 08:07

Askaterf
"For people who have actually switched sexes"...

numptynuts · 15/06/2018 08:12

What on earth am I reading here? This thread is actually terrifying....

I've never classed myself as a feminist but things have happened to me personally recently and this thread has solidified my belief that I am one, and proud.

Ereshkigal · 15/06/2018 08:16

But as I keep telling you, you need to read S7 and the accompanying example

As the women here keep telling you, you are misrepresenting this. The protected sex characteristic of "female" in the EA only applies to women, and the under 3k biologically male people with a GRC. And even then it is possible to exclude these biologically male people from certain female services.

NaiceBiscuits · 15/06/2018 08:23

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ChattyLion · 15/06/2018 08:25

Have MN added any more about this?

Referring to Natal sex isn’t hate speech. It just is what it is. Nobody even the really scary bullying brave or stunning people can change observation of facts?

Biology is just a neutral objective fact of life. The bullshit of gender, a made up system of discrimination and hierarchy, is what makes it all political. Gender can go fuck itself.

Avoiding facts just clobbers women, plus the trans people who don’t believe they have magically changed sex (just their gender presentation) plus kids, by misrepresenting facts to them which affects their proper safeguarding.

Sarahconnor1 · 15/06/2018 08:26

It's quite clear Gibb wants to redefine the meanings of both of sex and women without consultation or consent.

It's dictatorial and massively offensive.

womanformallyknownaswoman · 15/06/2018 08:41

Repeated dismissals of reality plus distortion of the truth is gaslighting and a form of very harmful verbal abuse - akin to that found in abuse of intimate partners. It is noticeable that certain OPs derail multiple times on multiple threads. Why is trolling behaviour like this tolerated and enabled? That's bystander bullying.

Best to ignore in the meantime - they love any attention even negative and obviously have nothing better to do

SuperDandy · 15/06/2018 08:42

Layat: "Then we have Mumsnet, the largest online space for women in the UK, 12 million unique visitors monthly, nearly resolutely gender critical and against self ID"

I don't think this statement bears scrutiny at all.

Most mn posters never set foot in FWR and would not know what GC or self ID even mean.

More than once there have been posts in here encouraging regular GC posters to go and get involved in AIBU or chat to "raise awareness" or keep a trans thread going to see if you can "peak trans" more of the general mn user base.

When posters with non GC views try to join the discussions in FWR they are almost always treated with hostility and suspicion. This has resulted in a segment of mn where the impression is of over-riding resolutely GC views, but that segment is not representative of mn users as a whole.

NaiceBiscuits · 15/06/2018 08:47

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garam · 15/06/2018 08:56

When posters with non GC views try to join the discussions in FWR they are almost always treated with hostility and suspicion. This has resulted in a segment of mn where the impression is of over-riding resolutely GC views, but that segment is not representative of mn users as a whole.

This! Anyone who has popped in here over a period see's the same 20-30 or so GC voices pushing misinformation or mis-representing studies/laws etc and less than a couple of hundred posters propping the boards up, it is the same names, saying the same things over and over again, and to position it as representative of millions of people is quite ridiculous.

GibbertyFlibbert · 15/06/2018 08:59

-Sex is listed as a protected characteristic because of the discrimination that people, mostly women, suffer due to their biological sex.*

So women don't suffer pay discrimination at work for example? There is no problem that some people stil think a woman's place is in the home?

Discrimination isn't only linked to biology.

TokenBritPoshOfCourse · 15/06/2018 09:01

And what is that discrimination based on?

It couldn’t possibly be child bearing and rearing, could it? As opposed to airy fairy notions of lady feels?

GibbertyFlibbert · 15/06/2018 09:05

"This is happening to us only and because we are of the female sex. Men are not expected to give ground to the transcommunity in the same way"

Again, I am a woman not trans as are many people who reject the gender critical approach to trans people. And it isn't about giving ground to the trans community, it is ensuring that all women get full rights even if their bodies don't live up the ideals of some people. It's classic feminism.

Picassospaintbrush · 15/06/2018 09:07

It's classic feminism.

You are funny.

Pratchet · 15/06/2018 09:09

Gibberty, saying 'I am a woman not trans' would get one of us deleted. I've said before, using words like woman and man when you don't know what they mean is profoundly pointless. (Most TRA female supporters say 'I am a cis woman' tbh. you phrasing would be thought to be transphobic.

Pratchet · 15/06/2018 09:11

You should start, if you want a conversation, to explain what you mean by certain words. 'Trans' for example. What do you mean by that?

Picassospaintbrush · 15/06/2018 09:18

Gibberty will just harass and repeat the weird made up ideology here all day.

As we know men move into women's spaces thinking they will be part of this space What they absolutely fail to realise is that their presence means it is no longer a woman's space. It will never be otherwise.

Destinysdaughter · 15/06/2018 09:20

AskATerf that is a brilliant article, needs to be widely shared!

9toenails · 15/06/2018 09:21

A question for gibbertyflibbert and others, in the light of the notion of 'natal sex' regarding transition:

(gibbertyflibbert has posted many times asserting the definite possibility of a person changing their sex.)

Suppose, hypothetically, a person has changed sex. What sex could that person have been before the change; given which, what sex could that person be after the change?

And a supplementary: what might be the proximate cause (as opposed to the background aetiology) of that change?

Pratchet · 15/06/2018 09:21

Yes, someone once scoffed when I said a single man destroys a female space. But it's true! It no longer exists, it has ceased to be. I get really annoyed when TRA say 'but there's just a few of us!' Doesn't matter.

leyat · 15/06/2018 09:47

Just a few points:

To those claiming that you can't be on Mumsnet FWR if you're not gender critical; firstly that evidently isn't true since you're here; secondly, you have shit arguments that are both anti-woman and anti-feminist and that is why they are rejected by the board, which as I said is almost resolutely gender critical/feminist. You're not being rejected, your arguments are. Everyone has the same access to posting on here, people disagreeing with you cannot stop you being here, this is a free forum where the debate around gender is happening and the fact the women here debating it largely reject gender identity and policies like self ID is exactly why TA's hate Mumsnet and want this board closed to feminist women, because this feminism board on the largest online space for women in the UK helps lay bare their lies not just in terms of the claims TA's make, but in terms of the support they say they have for stomping on women and girls that they absolutely (and increasingly) don't.

Also sex and gender reassignment are the two protected characteristics, a GRC does not give someone the protected characteristic of the opposite sex, the very fact of exemptions that apply to men with GRC's based on the fact they are not female and do not have the protections of the female sex as a result, demonstrates this. I honestly don't get why anyone bothers with people who lie about stuff like this. In order to debate we need to agree on a few basic aspects of reality, i.e. like the fact that sex is real and protected, otherwise there's just no point (imo).

Lastly I want to say that I used to use the term 'transwoman' for men who say they are women on here (mostly but not always, it depended on the context) but I will not be complicit in coerced speech, and the banning of referring to men who say they are women in any way that includes the word 'male' has made it such that now using the term transwoman feels like submitting to coercion. So I won't do it. If @MNHQ want me not to use the expression 'men who say they are women' then please let me know what alternative term you would be happy with that doesn't coerce me to only ever be able to refer to men the way they tell me to.

leyat · 15/06/2018 09:47

Yup Pratchet, it's not about numbers at all, the impact doesn't depend on that...

Pratchet · 15/06/2018 09:49

That should be pinned

Pratchet · 15/06/2018 09:49

'Ladies' has been suggested. I like it. Exclusively for the use of.

Pratchet · 15/06/2018 09:50

Transladies.