That would be fine if you were being genuine in wanting to understand.
I think it is pretty clear that you aren’t and that what is going on here is what often happens re ‘helping the poor’.
You have been sold a particular narrative. When the narrative is challenged by a person who doesn’t fit into it, you respond with suspicion regarding whether the person is truthful re their circumstances or judgement regarding their deservingness. You assume a mantle of ‘saviour’ and meddle beyond what is being asked.
This is what happens to a lot of people engaged in ‘helping the poor’. It is demeaning, unhelpful and ultimately supports keeping people poor because it is based on a narrative coming from those in power. Those in power who are keeping people poor in the first place.
Have a think about why you needed to make a blog about living in Holbeck, written by someone living in Holbeck, all about whether the writer is ‘allowed’ to be poor.