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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Never mind 'Moderation-gate'. This is DISGUSTING

32 replies

Mumsnut · 18/04/2018 17:10

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-5630429/Woman-24-jumped-death-man-threatened-send-revenge-porn-video.html

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RatRolyPoly · 18/04/2018 17:23

Oh wow, but the judge said he did really love her, so that's okay!

And as for "not having the life skills" to deal with his girlfriend's difficulties - apparently psychological issues - well I'll tell you, it doesn't take a whole heap of life skills to know that sending her secretly filmed in sex acts, telling her you're going to fuck her life up and threatening to send footage of her using cocaine to her family is just about the WORST thing you could do!

Bufferingkisses · 18/04/2018 17:33

Nice lesson from the judge in how best to treat "the love of your life". There was me thinking it was flowers and chocolates, nope it's hitting, spitting and revenge porn... Hmm

CircleSquareCircleSquare · 18/04/2018 17:36

Poor Damilya. That poor woman.

HairyBallTheorem · 18/04/2018 17:41

God that's awful. That poor woman. And only a suspended sentence for that evil shit

HerFemaleness · 18/04/2018 17:53

She must have been living in a nightmare. I hope future GFs of this man google him first and reading this makes them run for the hills.

thebewilderness · 18/04/2018 18:38

When adults tell little girls that boys hurt them because they like them the little boys take it to heart and grow up into judges who think driving a woman to her death by harassing her shows that he likes her.
The courts are failing women every day.

AngryAttackKittens · 18/04/2018 19:18

What bewilderness said. A lot of people think that the stuff children are taught about gender roles is harmless. It's not.

hesterton · 18/04/2018 19:23

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AsAProfessionalFekko · 18/04/2018 19:30

That summary... She must have been in hell to take that action. The judge should have asked themself if she have done this if the defendant hadn't acted in the way he did?

I was just reading about another London Italian man in court for faking porn photos of a female colleague and posting them online because she didn't want to him out with him or give him her phone number.

MoltenLasagne · 18/04/2018 19:34

"'I accept that video was sent out of revenge for something that the complainant had said about you during the relationship."

Jeez you'd think we'd moved past "look what you made me do" and here we have a judge providing it to a defendant as mitigation!

IAmWonkoTheSane · 18/04/2018 19:39

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AngryAttackKittens · 18/04/2018 19:39

So the official judicial take is that taking revenge against your ex is fine (if you're a man), maybe just feel a bit sorry if she then kills herself? Not sorry enough to actually serve time for it, obviously.

AngryAttackKittens · 18/04/2018 19:40

I'll help train the sharks that we're going to use to guard Women's Island!

IAmWonkoTheSane · 18/04/2018 19:41

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AssassinatedBeauty · 18/04/2018 19:42

So saying something mean about your partner totally justifies them sending revenge porn and promising to fuck your life up. Because he loved her....

This judge thinks treating a woman as a possession to ruin is the same as loving them.

AsAProfessionalFekko · 18/04/2018 19:43

The judge seemed to be commiserating with him for the loss of his 'love'. Did he not sit through the trial?

WrongOnTheInternet · 18/04/2018 19:55

FFS.

There is no justice for women in Britain.

dangermouseisace · 18/04/2018 20:15

WTF?? Why is this man not in jail? The judge is a misogynistic prick.

SecretsRSecrets · 19/04/2018 06:03

No wordsAngry

Strugglingtodomybest · 19/04/2018 06:19

Typical. This is so disheartening.

Coldhandscoldheart · 19/04/2018 06:30

Would there be any case for requesting is it a judicial review of the sentence? I know this has happened before in the case of a very lenient sentence.

SusanBunch · 19/04/2018 08:16

Absolutely horrific. What a piece of scum.

CapnHaddock · 19/04/2018 08:21

12 weeks suspended for 12 months? Unless men kill us, they can do pretty much anything they like to women in a relationship context

Noqonterfy · 19/04/2018 08:49

What a load of fucking shit. That's not love. That's control and abuse from inadequate disgusting excuse of a human being whose got away with destroying another person. Angry

moofolk · 19/04/2018 08:55

Aw poor guy. It was a 'volatile relationship', so who wouldn't film someone without their consent, beat them and threaten to send video to her family.

The judge might as well have said 'come on lads, we've all done it'. Angry

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