Oh wow, but the judge said he did really love her, so that's okay!
And as for "not having the life skills" to deal with his girlfriend's difficulties - apparently psychological issues - well I'll tell you, it doesn't take a whole heap of life skills to know that sending her secretly filmed in sex acts, telling her you're going to fuck her life up and threatening to send footage of her using cocaine to her family is just about the WORST thing you could do!