@terryleather
From that thread you linked:
'Let’s let that sink in first: gender is being medically and psychologically regulated. Imagine: someone an “expert” about YOUR identity that’s not actually YOU. That pathologises and strips autonomy, and provides strict rules about what gender “means” and “how” you must do it'
Now substitute race /age/any other biological condition for gender and see how that plays.
(Is what I wish I could say to her.)