I don't understand why you aren't encouraging your child to be out and proud in their new gender identity as a transwoman, M1randa1, instead of going along with the myth that they have changed sex?
From where I'm sitting, it's the transgender folk and those around them that seem to be ashamed of the T-word, hence their eagerness to hide under the cloak of perceived 'womanhood'.
They're never going to convince the majority of the public that an XY-male can ever become what is generally understood as a woman, as it flies in the face of scientific fact. The sooner the trans community comes to terms with that, the sooner the rest of society will stop laughing at such ludicrous dogma behinds their backs. Because, rail against it as much as you like, but that is what is happening, in the same way many of us roll our eyes at the beliefs of the scientologists or the reptilian theories of David Icke.
The transgender community is fighting the wrong battle. The one they should be engaging in is with themselves. Transgendered and proud.