I agree with many PPs and merrymouse
I think it’s essential to have clear law and policies in this area. Which is why the Law Society are acting appallingly here.
It’s not ok to give up on women’s single-sex spaces, opportunities, awards because of some thoughtless or misguided sense of being equal ops.
That taking of women’s prizes and opportunities and ’opening them up to ‘anyone who IDs themselves as a woman’ isn’t inclusion, it’s just pretending that there was a level playing field to begin with, which is utter bullshit. Especially at work for women. The odds being stacked against women was why those single sex spaces and opportunities were started in the first place. It’s the opposite of inclusive to remove those things from women. Taking nothing from men, generally the more advantaged sex at work.
Would everybody who is so ‘inclusive’ say we should remove all workplace measures for people with disabilities or people from ethnic minorities or lesbian or gay people, because that support or protection is not inclusive? No. So why do women just have to inclusively welcome the destruction of the minimal protections we have?
My workplace is keen to virtue signal about its ‘inclusiveness’ like a lot of other places but without doing any of the actual work with the staff or setting out of proper policies to BE genuinely inclusive.
End result: we have an (I think AGP) male colleague in the women's toilets on his say so, which I can do fuck all about.
That’s how men who give the appearance of acting out an appropriative sexual fetish about their idea of ‘womanhood’ (which is sometimes quite inappropriately sexualised for work in its expression) can be in the cubicle right next to mine.
When I am dealing with my periods, pissing audibly or trying to sort out my tights etc etc. I just don’t want to do that next to male bodied people, however nice or harmless- seeming they are.
I also resent the double standards- if me or my female colleagues turned up dressed in a sexualised way at work one day, we’d get taken aside by HR for a talk.
I can’t talk to HR or to my colleagues about any of this in case it gets me into trouble for bullying. 