Calling women bigots for raising concerns is shameful. You say “this kind of shit plays to that agenda”, in fact coming on here and telling the women in this thread that you “can’t believe what a bunch of bigots they are” for “squabbling” over this is exactly the sort of thing which silences women.
This is not the most serious example of how self ID will affect women, and I don’t think anyone on this thread has said that it is. It is, however, plainly a symptom of a wider issue, and the biological reality of women bearing the brunt of the effect of pregnancy/maternity leave/child care on career matters.
And to argue that you know someone who transitioned and is brave and deserves an award is a really poor argument. I’m sure she does deserve an award, firstly it doesn’t mean it has to be this one, and secondly if she has a GRC not many people would have a problem with her winning this one. It is self ID that people are complaining about being eligible, not trans women who have transitioned so your example is totally erroneous.
And I have never misgendered anybody in my life.