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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

I'm too frightened to Google it. Can you tell me what an incel is please.

25 replies

dorade · 03/03/2018 09:37

That's it really.

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GoodyMog · 03/03/2018 09:39

"Involuntary celibate" - men who think they are owed sex and aren't getting it (presumably because they act like entitled arseholes).

TERFragetteCity · 03/03/2018 09:40

Rapey cunts.

ScreamingLevitation · 03/03/2018 09:41

Elliot Rodger was one.

They want sex. They can't get it. They hate women.

AngryAttackKittens · 03/03/2018 09:44

Yeah, what they said. Basically a subculture of MRAs who think the fact that no woman will touch their penis is the defining aspect of their existence. Oblivious to role their noxious and rather alarming personalities play in no woman wanting to go anywhere near them.

Even Reddit shut down their section for being too awful, which if you know what Reddit is usually like is really saying something.

lunamoth581 · 03/03/2018 09:50

"Incel" stands for involuntary celibacy. Basically, can't get laid. Incels are mostly men. (Never read of a female incel, actually). They're deep in the MRA/red-pill culture. They believe that the reason they can't get laid is because women are just too stuck up and only want to have sex with "alpha males." Instead of, y'know, their horrible, horrible personalities being the cause of their lack of sex.

They believe horrible things. That women are things to be used. That women should have no right to decide who they have sex with, and when. That women need to be violently put back in their place as sub-human sex toys. That governments should force women to have sex with them. They idolize Elliot Rodgers and cheer on every school shooter and man who commits violence against women.

They're really, really vile men and I do not recommend googling them. Unless you're ready to be simultaneously pissed off and grossed out.

dorade · 03/03/2018 12:38

Thanks

Glad I didn't google.

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SnibbleAgain · 03/03/2018 12:44

I've read Incel views that women choosing not to have sex with them is the same as rape.

They are obsessed with an imaginary "alpha" called ?Chad or something, who gets laid all the time even though he's a bit of a bastard, and they express their displeasure with the Chads of the world by telling each other EXACTLY what they think he's doing with all these women and girls who jump into bed with him.

FilledSoda · 03/03/2018 12:50

The world is becoming so frightening , I'm almost relieved i don't have children .

ConversationCoat · 03/03/2018 12:51

They also live with their mums and smell like cheese

PhelanThePain · 03/03/2018 12:53

I’d never heard this term before last night. Do incels also talk about nice guys finishing last and the friend zone?

TERFragetteCity · 03/03/2018 12:54

They are obsessed with an imaginary "alpha" called ?Chad

These days some are saying they are women, and that makes them lesbians and that is the reason women should sleep with them.

metalmum15 · 03/03/2018 13:20

Never read of a female incel actually
Supposedly the person who first came up with the word incel is a woman from Canada.

SnibbleAgain · 03/03/2018 13:59

Phelan yes,

Basically they think that women are inherently stupid, selfish, evil, manipulative, and slave to their sexual desires for the Chads.

The answer to this is variously to legalise rape, to lower the age of consent so they can get girls while they are still vulnerable to abusive tactics to make them dependent, to have each man given a woman, and so on.

Elliot Rodgers was one of these.

It all sounds hilarious and ridiculous, but unfortunately, this is part of the "radicalisation" that doesn't get talked about - young usually white men getting pulled into the far right and really outrageous ideas about women, gay people, immigrants etc. Misogyny always seems to be a feature of extreme ideologies. And most men are misogynist to some degree, it's all very worrying. Men can haev do ACT on this stuff, they egg each other on, same as paedophiles finding each other on the net and sharing tactics etc.

hackmum · 03/03/2018 14:11

lunamoth: "They believe horrible things. That women are things to be used. That women should have no right to decide who they have sex with, and when. That women need to be violently put back in their place as sub-human sex toys. That governments should force women to have sex with them. They idolize Elliot Rodgers and cheer on every school shooter and man who commits violence against women."

Gosh, I can't imagine why no-one wants to have sex with them.

Sanderz · 03/03/2018 17:32

They were too horrible even for Reddit where they used to have a forum, but now they're banned.

CoCoCoconut · 03/03/2018 18:25

What does "red-pill" refer to, please??

UpstartCrow · 03/03/2018 18:31

CoCoCoconut Red Pill is a male rights philosophy, it name is taken from the film the Matrix. a character was offered the choice of a red or blue pill. If he took the blue pill he'd be returned to his world to carry on as before, the red pill would open his eyes to The Truth.

There's a film and a Reddit sub.

CoCoCoconut · 03/03/2018 18:36

Thanks, Upstart

TallulahWaitingInTheRain · 03/03/2018 18:37

Gosh, I can't imagine why no-one wants to have sex with them

It's a mystery isn't it

thebewilderness · 04/03/2018 01:28

The weird thing about Rodgers and probably some of the rest of them is that their aggrieved entitlement is despite them never making any effort to approach any woman ever.
They remind me of the guy who recently murdered his parents because he convinced himself they would not support his transition.
I think there is an underlying illness there.

TinyRick · 04/03/2018 03:10

Before the Reddit sub went there were at least 3/4 TiMs on it.

TinyRick · 04/03/2018 03:12

One said that the reason they were transitioning is because girls/women get sex whenever they want, so if they became one, they too would finally get laid.

Make of that what you will...

EmmaGrundyForPM · 04/03/2018 03:16

Who is Elliot Rogers?

thebewilderness · 04/03/2018 03:25

Rogers is the Santa Barbara California shooter who went looking for women to kill.

TheButterflyOfTheStorms · 04/03/2018 04:55

They want sex. They can't get it. They hate women.

They want sex with women much more intelligent, attractive and socially connected than them. Just coz. It's not like they're trying to date my mate who's awkward, sweet and has been single for twenty years.

That's why it's misogyny. They have no fellow feeling for their female compatriots. They're men so they deserve sex on demand from attractive women. Hollywood told them.

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